" Now maggie, the first thing is to play around with your feminine assets, it includes your breasts, your butt, run your fingers over them like a dirty girl would! This is GUARANTEED to give him a hard-on, unless well... you don't have the killer curves, which I guess you need to hit the gym soon if that's the case.
First of all, ladies who are listening to me tonight, I want you to know that your man's penis can take a lot of rougher treatment than the lady's parts. Ladies like it delicate and slow and smooth...men don't have quite as many nerve endings (poor guys!), so you can feel free to be a little rougher with him.
Here's a favourite tip of mine if you are serious about giving your man a mind-blowing blowjob tonight.The first tip is the Grab and Massage.
You walk up to your man out of the blue, look him intensely in the eyes and grab his package through his pant, and squeeze.It's not like you're squeezing a stress ball, girl, but put a little pressure behind it. Give him a little bit of a massage down there until you feel him starting to harden.
The key to this move is confidence. Sadly, many ladies do not have this confidence. You don't know what you are missing, not being confident in front of your man, you can make him lick your feet, give you the whole world If you do these.
Don't be hesitant or shy! This is about letting yourself go. Especially if you usually take the backseat on getting your lovemaking started, showing your dominant side will drive him nuts! I'm sure you're already an expert on getting your man hard with your hands, so let's move on to something a little bit more challenging. Use this move when you're already in bed (or heading for it) and looking for a lovemaking session. The Passionate Stroke.
While playing a soft music in the backgroundhaveve your man lay down on his back, naked, and get on your hands and knees. Let your eyes roam over him slowly before kissing him deeply. Kiss and lick your way slowly down his body, paying special attention to his neck, chest (don't be shy with his nipples, We guys love to have them licked and stroked!), and lower belly and hip bones. By the time you've reached his manhood, it will already be hard as a rock and ready for your mouth. If it needs a little help, try this. It sounds strange but works like a charm.
Hold your hand palm down, and point your fingers towards the floor with a gentle curve so that your hand looks like a crane-game claw. Very lightly stroke from the base of his penis to the tip with your curved hand several times.
Please,note that all of your fingertips should be connecting with his manhood while you're stroking. This move sounds odd, but it's a totally different sensation that will just make him more eager for your mouth. Talk Dirty ladies, Now don't panic. Talking dirty can be easy once you know the "secret.". Ladies, y'all don't know how talking dirty drives us insane, You don't even have to be classically "dirty" to turn your man on. Basicall, all you have to do to dirty talk your man into a pants-tenting frenzy is, drum roll please....tell him what you're going to do to him.
Here's a loose example that you can tweak for your own use: "Baby, I want taste you " "You look so sexy in those jeans...I can't wait to take them off" " I'm going to suck your cock right here."
Don't be afraid to be dirty, ladies! It makes men go crazy, talk dirty, and watch your man go crazy for you.
"Dick, cock, suck, lick.." .repeat these words to yourself until you can say them without blushing. Your man's member will be straining his jeans when he hears you talking like a dirty girl.
And if you want to talk Dirty to your man, Speak in a low voice very close to his ear, tickling it with your moving lips. Or kiss him intermittently as you murmur your dirty thoughts to him. Use a soft voice, don't use a deep voice like his, you are not a rapper.
You can say those dirty words to him as you run your hands over his chest and shoulders, but don't let them stray below his waist! And don't forget this, If he still needs a little help getting hard once you've gotten his pants off (though he probably won't), stimulate him with your mouth. Let your hot breath tease him, and gently lick the tip of his member like an ice cream cone, and his cock be standing at attention in no time.
Blend these tips into your lovemaking to spice things up, or use your own methods to get him ready.
However you do it, make sure he's nice and hard before you blow his mind. So you've got your man all ready, right?
There's just one more thing you have to do before we start. Your Attitude
Your attitude is the most important part about oral sex, and lucky for you it's also the easiest thing for you to control. Your clear enjoyment of and enthusiasm for getting down is what's going to make this blowjob special for your man. So turn on your natural "naughty girl" mode and let your lust flow!
You're going to be armed with tons of hot and sexy new tips and a sizzling new attitude, so get excited to get on your knees You can give your man a blow job in any of your chosen position, you can get on your knees, Let him lay on the bed, and If you have long hair, I'd tie it back so that it doesn't get in your way or block your partner's view of the action. Take a drink of water if you need one, and lick your lips to get them nice and moist as well.
Now, it's time to get down to the main business