Kiara firmly believed that if a woman wants to live like an aloof and proud queen, she must not only have an independent character but also a means to stand on her own. If she couldn't do either, she would just have to learn to compromise and tone down her temper to be a traditional housewife, willing to sacrifice for the family. As long as she's willing, who dares to say it's not a happy and ordinary way to live?
The thing she feared most was that when choosing a partner, one would act on impulse and think any man would do. After marriage, if the man couldn't meet her expectations and their ideas didn't align, they would fight daily, with crying and drama, turning life into that of a constant complainer. All they would do is demand change from the other without considering what they could do for themselves.
