Relationship counseling is a simple yet complex job because almost all consultees will show a face that seems to say "my feelings are unique, nobody can solve my problem, nobody understands my pain."
However, to a psychologist, the so-called emotional problems are actually quite similar to one another.
In the end, they are just a layer of window paper that can be easily punctured. The consultee stands on this side, and the person they want stands on the other side. Although the paper is thin, it blocks their view, leaving everything on the other side unknown. After puncturing the paper, they will encounter many new problems.
And many of these problems are either unsolvable or seem unsolvable to the consultee.
No psychologist would explicitly tell their patients whether to break up or not. They would only analyze the problems that might arise after breaking the paper for you, leaving the choice to the individual.
