"Without sufficient understanding between each other, if the one being proposed to isn't ready for marriage. In such an elaborate proposal, should they accept or reject?" Peggy Lewis asked.
"If they accept, they're not being true to their feelings. But if they don't, the proposer is hurt. And it's even worse if it happens in front of all their friends and family, as it would damage relationships." Peggy continued.
Sometimes, a person may not be ready for marriage, not because they don't love their partner, but because they're not prepared yet.
This way, making such a massive effort puts pressure on the party that does not wish to marry.
Meanwhile, the party willing to marry might feel unloved by the other.
And that's how misunderstandings arise.
"However, if both parties have agreed beforehand and decided to get married, wouldn't a proposal afterwards be redundant?" Peggy said.
Lyke Zhekova pondered this and found it reasonable.
