Sitting down and thinking back at all the past experiences I realise i have gone through a lot of traumatising events that have influenced my decisions in life. I don't know why I keep forgetting I'm telling a story, and I need to give you a full view of all that has happened to me. Born on the 21st of March 27 years ago as the third daughter and the last child to a Christian mother and a wayward father. I was the type of child that came after you've decided not to have any more children, but still, my mom was joyed to have me. To my mom, I was the child she needed to prove to everyone that her training method was the best, and my two elder sisters have been such a disappointment, so I was her do over. To my dad, I was the child he wasn't sure he produced as I came when medically he wasn't strong enough to have a child. All the same, I was their child, and they had the obligation to raise me into a fine young woman. I don't remember remember much from my toddler days but all I can tell you is I definitely wasn't the cute child everyone would love to see and carry in terms of physical characteristics and I also remembered being referred to as the ugliest in the family. This did affect me as a young child, but it definitely affected my esteem growing up. Another fact I definitely understand is that my dad wasn't always around and when he was there would be series of arguments between he and my mom which might lead to violence ( yes I grew up seeing my parents fight brutally and my dad beating my mom).