When the relationship has its own spark in between two, the third one will have less scope to enter, the beauty lies in the intimacy sometimes, while sometimes the emotional quotient itself plays a crucial role to make the two attached.
The ultimate expression of love would be sex , but not always, there is always a debate between the kind of emotion people make to reach the zenith in their expression of love, some call it desperate, some may treat it as a casual voluntary activity, while some have given an impression of high priority.
While making clarifications, people often get a thought that the availability of women for men and men for a woman makes some difference in choosing their priorities and delusions about the intercourse.
Difference of opinion on having intercourse:
Approach 1: Intercourse makes people liberated and reach their freedom of having normalcy, this might be the thinking of people who were obliged or forced to treat their bodies as sacrosanct, and they just want their bodies to be treated as normal like any other, precisely the animal mindset (presuming homo sapiens as social animals with intelligent quotient)
Approach 2 : Intercourse should be done only after legal relationships. With due respect to religious sentiments, some sections of people often rely on traditional and religious beliefs, they compare this with purity and impurity concepts. They have mindset differences and misbeliefs about the takers of opinion 1 people. They treat them as habitual offenders, but in reality many of these people also follow the approach 1, it's just that, they don't express explicitly in society .
Approach 3: Married vs unmarried
Some call them betrayers, some call them mature, some even give a tag, that they are ultra progressive(oh boy) and pretend as they are the profounders of destiny ( sit back and relax approach).
The points, i mentioned above gives a lot of rational thinking of different mindsets of my different viewers of this article, but, to be precise, if they say, individual opinion matters not everyone's, that principal should be followed everywhere, but the expression of love itself needs a codependent, then i doubt them, where would their so called individual opinions go
Expression is a part, being involved in intimacy is a part, having children is a part, they all are interconnected and they only make a difference only if they treat these parts seperately, thereby justifying all the approaches mentioned above.
" Respect the opinions of your beloved, no matter what they take, pain is inevitable according to some mindset, but pain is equally inevitable for the beloved, it's just that, they may see it after sometime and I call it " delayed gratification "
Again, opinions should be responsible to atleast them who make their lives accountable