The first thing I did to teach Asty, was ask her what position she wanted to be in.
"So, Asty, do you want to be on top, or on the bottom during sex? Before you ask, yes this is important, it will dictate how things will go between the two of you."
She was fidgeting because she was unsure about all this, as my demeanour had changed from a carefree gal, do a sexual force of nature almost.
"Um… I think… Umm…"
"It's okay, take your time. If you can't decide that's fine too, most people generally don't care." I said, trying to ease her into all this.
"I think… I'd like to beee… On top?"
"You sure?"
"No…" She pouted lightly in shame. "I just want to have sex, I don't really care much about that."
"That's fine, you can discover which position you prefer being in when you actually do it. Now, the next thing you need to learn is giving and receiving."
"What's that?"
