The first step of being a man is ignoring the hunger. Cause yes boy, you gonna be starving. Starved of attention. Starved of affirmation. Starved of love. Starved of being that you are enough.
Step 2 in being a man is comfortability with replacebility. You are only as good as you are useful. You are only as valuable as you are needed by others. Should there ever come a day boy where you fail to provide e erybody with a smiling face then don't be surprised when they say all man do is take up space. And you are swiftly replaced.
Step 3 in being a man is overcoming your fear of the fire. Cause almost everything you will ever try to build will go up in flames. And yes you are always to blame
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