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Chapter 3 - A Real Friend Care of Me

02-22-2023 Wednesday

I told Saroy what happened between me and Ferrand, I told her that I said Byebye to Ferrend and separate with him, I was sad because I thought I was in love with him. I told

this news to Saroy the days before yesterday. In fact, my mood has already been calm for 2 days.

Saroy sent me comforting messages today and yesterday, I think she cares about me very much, I think she is a real friend, thank you for your kindness.

Message 1:

Dear Melody, good evening,

I pray that you will find the correct person for you to love you and care for you.

But there are many online people who just cheat , and misuse people and Photos

Also Mickey is young. I wish you concentrate only on business or your career.

"Saroy, why my heart hope a lover?"

— That is because you faced a financial problem and you started to feel insecure.

So you thought if you get a reliable life partner , you can relax in your mind.

"Sorry for this, Namaste"

—Why you have to feel sorry?

This life is very very precious.

Actually, we always think that we like to be loved by somebody when we're alone. Mostly we think this way when we have problems of money or finance. If you having a steady job, if you having a good salary, you won't feel like that. You won't feel you need somebody in your life.

OK, you already have Mickey. She is very precious to you. You don't need any other person for that. Sometimes when you're facing financial problem or any money problem.

So you felt maybe comfortable with anybody who has show a little bit more care, who told you I will take care of you like that, but in fact, there're too much people who are scaring on line base on this. But that's not anybody loving anyone truly for that matter.

Your life is very precious, your living is very precious, yes, you facing some problems, OK, but we will pray that you will get a very good job and a very good opportunity also. Don't worry.

Because I also facing to the same problem. I'm not saying so I only able to pray you. But mostly, I think differently. I think if I become good in business, do some business will be more helpful for me then going or relying on any man. Because we don't know when this person will have this thus in what day will have that. Whether he is a good person or whether he is a bad person. We really don't know about that. So it's better to rely on ourself than rely on any man.

If you feel very uncomfortable, I want you to go or do some Yoga, or send to do something which is comforting to you. Because you might feel that is lost of love and like that on this. But actually, this person is not just like of trust as your feeling. Don't and never break yourself for any man on the planet.

Message 2:

Hi Melody, Good afternoon,

How are you doing today?

I will say you something. I and somebody who lorn the life on any man, OK, either for a lover or anytings, because you see one thing is you have to appreciate your own value, if a person or a man is trying to cheat you. Or if a man is trying to do misuse your goodness. Then it's not worth to be loved.

Firstly you accept yourself as alright. Because you have your job, you have Mickey to take care of. Ok, sometimes you might feel comfortable like on a man, but I don't think so. The liking on any man is good. Today he might have somebody, tomorrow he might have some other person, so how are you going to rely on this?

It's better to become self-sufficient by yourself. When you're self-sufficient by yourself, you don't need any other man for support. But that is what my feeling always, I never rely on any man for a lover or care or anythings. The only care I wanted is from my mother as I receive it and very happy on that part itself.

Hi, Melody, also there were some man who are very genuine and who are very committed in the world. But still I would say even they're like that. It's better don't rely on them for anythings in life. You know because this is our part, we have to have confident in ourself. OK, so you have confident on yourself, you appreciate yourself more than anybody else. OK, because now you having this Financial problem, you might be thinking that, but you have a good job,also I will try and see if I can manage some jobs for you on the side, OK? You take care. Anythings you just leave a voice message.

Message 3:

Dear Melody

Good morning

U know this is very cheerful new day ❤️ full of care for you from Lord

Lord God made this world very precious

Its just we don't have time

And you have beautiful Mickey - she is worth all the happiness on this earth

So be cheerful 💐

It may seem difficult to get over the man who you have never met , but his words may have created a longing and hope in your heart.

Best therapy - find job or concentrate on Job which you are doing

NEVER CRY OR BE UPSET BECAUSE OF A MAN , they are just a gender variant of human being , thats all they are.

What i say may be look like uncomfortable for you

But i see u are terribly hurt at heart

Now about Ferrand,

1. If he has genuine love for you , he will never make you a partner in a very dangerous situation.

This situation could have cost the happiness of Mickey and your brother too.

2. You feel he has no trust on you , - my take is - he had told his family tragic story which made your heart softer so that he made you trust him , only for his own selfish purpose of cheating you.

So like you there may be many women in his life, you are just one of many.

3. You have been miraculously saved because you sent me message and you also insisted on Salary for you.

With Salary you feel secure.

I will tell you a very very beautiful story the Lord has for you.

You may wake up with tear stained eyes.

But,

Just look up the ceiling above your bed - its clear . It's a bright new day to face any challenges, because you woke up alive.

Second you go to your washroom for brushing and getting ready.

When water touches your skin - feel the life of the water on your fingers and hand and splashes on the face is very delightful.

Savour this sensation.

Just don't concentrate much on food,

Even a banana thank the Lord and eat it , with relish ( there are many on this earth who have passed away who never got to taste the banana in your hand ) its precious and a gift of providence from Lord.

When you walk,

If there are plants or leaves touch them.

You will feel their delight particularly if you are happy.

Give 10 seconds look up at the sky see if it's azure blue with clouds, who knows how many looked at the scene thats lords gift to delight your eyes.

Remember what your eyes have seen, no one has seen.

Go for your work.

Just spread your arms make a round

Don't bother about people around you.

Just do it and feel the wind through your fingers.

Just take a short jump,

You have spread happiness.

Radom people as you walk wish them good morning.

I say that to people I see in the lift too.

They are with me hardly 10 seconds.

But I just wished someone for happiness.

So you see,

There are so many beautifully made wondrous gifts from Lord.

Financial health will happen.

Let's do what we can explore a bit.

Also if u have time,

Watch a movie called: "The gods must be crazy"

It's very old movie, you can laugh.

Good night.

Do not think about any man,

Just think if you are going to walk on the edge of earth.

Saroy is a Christian, she is like an angel who spreads love and care for others.

I love you Saroy, you are an angel of the Lord.