However, sometimes, such compromises and filial piety cannot secure the maternal love he desires. In the real world, being kind to someone doesn't guarantee they will treat you well in return.
Once the other person gets used to that kindness, they start taking your efforts for granted because they are reluctant to mistreat the favored child. Thus, they end up mistreating you, the obedient and self-sacrificing child who continually lowers their boundaries in the hopes of receiving even a little care.
Wen Nian believed that Bai Zheng's later suicide attempts were undoubtedly closely connected to these matters.
Moving closer to Bai Zheng, she turned her body and tried to persuade him, "Bai Zheng, the discomfort you feel from doing something you dislike is what you're experiencing now. It contradicts your principles and beliefs. I don't think you should associate this matter with receiving maternal love."
