Change – to make something (or someone) different; alter or modify.

Trying to be something we're not just to conform to the deceptive ideologies of society, brainwashed into believing that it's the proper way, constantly evaluating ourselves with others, being unable to follow our intuitions, and involuntarily driven to accept things as they are despite knowing they're wrong, we end up pretending to be someone we're not.

At some point in your life, you discover aspects of yourself that you don't particularly like, but there's nothing you can do to change them. You can only accept yourself as you are regardless of who you become.