Ardapunia, January 2020
Roger wanted to come and meet Pari's family, primarily because his business partner in Bangladesh informed him that it was the norm. "You cannot land up at their house, with Pari, few days before the marriage," Mr. Momen said. "You need to formally ask their daughter's hand for marriage," he elaborated.
Roger, who had known Abdul Momen for the last 10 years, realised it was timely advice. He had been eager to meet the family, particularly Kajol and Shona. He had spoken to them a few times, when Pari called home. However, he had always thought that Pari would be with him. The day he left for Ardapunia, he had spoken to Pari. She had not been feeling too well after coming back from their Bournemouth trip.
"Go to the clinic Pari; you will be travelling in two weeks," he had urged. "Pari, I am nervous," confessed Roger, "do I need to carry sandesh? Is there any particular custom to follow, when I meet them?" he had asked, missing her.
