Many people felt that it did not matter if they said a few words, but this was actually like a collapsed castle that was gradually being formed.
When one was deceived many times, even though it was only a small matter, they would slowly form an impression of those who had lied to them. Most of this impression would stay with them for the rest of their lives. Unless either person changed, it would not disappear.
This was roughly the same as a kind of prejudice. Once a prejudice appeared, it would become stronger and stronger and slowly become uncontrollable.
Small matters were actually the best places to see through many problems. Many people who liked to stand others up and speak exaggerated words would say these things.
"Aiya, isn't it just a small matter? Do you have to be so calculative?"
