- At the age of 16, when there are hundreds of love offers next to the classmate girls, there is no one to be just friends with the boys.

- At the age of 18, classmate girls are eligible for marriage, but boys get the title of childhood.

- What is the longing for a relationship at the age of 20 while the classmates laughingly praise the brother 5 years senior in front of him.

- At the age of 22, when the serials of marriage of friends continue, the society still calls the boys "bachcha boys" of honors!

- In 24 years, when the girls are going to stop studying, then the boy should start the war!

- No matter how drunk or depressed, the boy who does not have his own money should think many times that he will not get married if he does not earn - he also has to take responsibility, family, wife, children.!"

- Even if you don't find anyone in silent crying, society, relatives, family will remind you of one thing - "What is the boy doing..? Is he established..?

- Honours-Masters, even though the family gives hundreds of marriage options for the girl, there is only one option in front of the boy, "When and when will I get a job!"

- During the fire days of the university, the professor used to say in his lectures that "Provision is in the hands of Allah", don't worry about it,

- But, he also wants a boy with a government job for his daughter.!"

- The age passes to settle the siblings by doing work or to strengthen the father's hand and decorate the house a little, the boy does not care.

- After so long, a little sober.. "Looking for a beautiful girl, many people say, this old man is greedy for wealth, but he is looking for a young girl too!"

- After marriage, thinking about family and children, he goes abroad alone..!"

- Or thinking about the "school college" of the child's city alone. Maybe the workplace is far from the family,

- Doesn't even care about bone loss, diabetes while doing work-related cooking, lonely depression and fortnightly journey to a district/upazila.

- To brighten the faces of the parents, the boy's dream started in his childhood, the youth of the struggle and the fight to brighten the child's future even at the end of his life, may the battle never end.

- Yet this society says ah! "Boys are so free! After doing so much, he says boys don't know how to love."!

* Khan Selim

CSE Engineer,

Dhaka,Bangladesh.