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Chapter 1 - WHO IS SHE?x

Whenever we talk about women we tend to think , women are equal to men but in fact she can't be, because her role is more important than men in creation process meaning giving birth, actually she is superior to men if we judge unbiasedly , everything from her complex internal mechanism to her emotional depth to the pain ,suffering, her hard work when she goes through labor, during giving birth, every evidence suggest she is superior not equal to men, we men are curious about her , in other words our whole world revolves around her , sometimes we make mistake by comparing women intellectual depth with men intellectual depth, Actually comparison should be done between men's intellectual depth with women's emotional depth, both are equally important for smooth running of the society, coz without intellect emotion is stupid , and without emotion intellect is heartless, in other words both complement each other perfectly we just have to realize that, likewise men and women should complement each other rather than compete with each other.
ROLE OF WOMEN IN CREATION PROCESS
Before we understand the role of women in creation process we have to understand the creation process itself, so keep an open mind and try to understand unbiasedly, in creation process let us assume there are two factor masculine and feminine, if you visited any Hindu temple you might have seen Shiva linga ( stone curved male private part and its stuck into female private part ), actually it's the physical representation of creation process which involved two factors masculine and feminine, masculine energy/entity follows push factor, and feminine energy/entity follows pull factor, so basically any type of creation consist of push ( masculine) and pull ( feminine ) aspect/factor , so you can also call it push and pull theory , linga yoni theory ( penis vagina theory) ,or feminine and masculine theory, it's up to you to decide, but meaning of all are the same, so based on push and pull theory women or feminine entity follows pull factor , so basically anything that has pull factor is feminine in nature, it may be materialistic thing , quality , habit , behavior etc.
Let us understand it with some example,
Earth is feminine and sun is masculine because earth receives sunlight from sun, there is pull factor is involved as " receives" is pull factor, similarly Oxygen is feminine Carbon dioxide is masculine, magnet is feminine iron is masculine , black hole is feminine light is masculine, listening is feminine talking is masculine, reading is feminine writing is masculine, if you go to gym all the pull exercise is feminine and push exercise is masculine, this theory can also be applied to Hindu god and goddess, let us see this through some example here I have only included major goddess of Hinduism.
1. Sarasvati, goddess of knowledge , as we know knowledge is something we gain ,and gaining is feminine, ( because gaining comes under pull factor )
2. Lakshmi, goddess of wealth , as we know wealth is also something we gain or try to gain
3. Kali, goddess of destruction/ rage, rage is also a kind of energy that we gain
4. And finally Durga , goddess of strength/energy, she is the combination of all three goddess, she is the embodiment of energy itself because energy is also something that we gain, that is why she is represented as riding tiger or lion which is the representation of strength. Now let us see what is going on in the world with an example, ,
Recently a girl in Iran was killed and decapitated by her husband and her own family members, her husband took the decapitated head in his hand and roamed the street as if he was sending a message that defying the religious law will have consequence, her crime was only that she liked to wear western dress or short dress do make up etc. she had to suffer this fate because she was born in a religiously fanatic society , she had suffer because she was a woman who followed her heart rather than the stupid religious laws, she is just one women in long line of women who suffered and are suffering the same fate, still in this day and age. Women by nature wants to be expressive, forcing women not to look attractive is like expecting magnet not to have magnetic properties, suppressing their desire forcefully is not just crime against women but crime against whole creation.
CONCEPT OF PURITY AND IMPURITY
When it comes to judging women based on purity, many people including women seems to blame only women for that, actually that was the reason why that girl in Iran was decapitated, it seems she has become impure ,corrupt, immoral etc. But the question remains the same, do women really become impure? Let us find the answer to that question from push and pull theory.
Let us take the example of sex, in sex women has the pull factor meaning she is receiving something, so, if we say she is impure because she received sperm inside her ( during sexual intercourse ), then it would mean, we are also impure because we also came from the thing she received, that would mean the creation itself is impure, if we say sex with protection or in other words sex only for pleasure makes her impure then it would imply that the process through creation takes place is impure, hence we are all impure, so you see it is very difficult to prove women impure, so moral of the story if women is impure then whole creation is impure, in sexual intercourse someone becomes impure but that someone is not women, actually sex seems to benefit women more than men, after sexual intercourse women's health, glow in her face increases, in fact there is a saying in my mother tongue that ' if a women suddenly gains health, beauty, glowing skin then simultaneously a men will lose health, strength, vigor ' in this above line you can easily understand what is going on, let me give you another example from Hindu religion, in Hindu religion to make idol of goddess durga the Brahmins first has to collect mud from brothel or prostitution center because it is believed that without that mud , goddess durgas idol will not be formed, it also implies that durga represent women as whole without discriminating what they do or where they belong, from prostitute to the richest, powerful women, women from lower strata of society to higher strata of society every women in society is represented by Goddess Durga, and goddess durga represent strength and energy.
TROJAN HORSE
When we talk about women empowerment we should also remember that , it is not only men's fault that women are in such condition, particular type of feminine mindset is also responsible for that , women with this mindset are also responsible , there are three particular type of feminine mindset according to my assumption,
1. Womboy Mindset : Women with these type of mindset have more push factor in them, meaning there mindset is masculine, but don't be confused between tomboy and womboy, because both have masculine tendency, but women with tomboy mindset are free minded adventurous care free, they have positive masculine qualities, but womboy mindset women are like physically women but mentally a boy, they behave immaturely, always plays women card , mostly self-centered, they behave as if a boy somehow reincarnated in a women's body, sometimes they talk about their private part with such excitement as if a boy is excited to get women's private part, sometimes these kind of women show complete lack of emotion as if she is not at all a women, mother killing her own child is one such example, the word 'boy' is not used to demean men in anyway, actually boy here means the push factor .

2. Emotionally Confused Mentality : Women with these type of mindset as the name suggest are emotionally confused, negativity prevails in there surrounding, constant mood swing is also another sign, constant complaining and crying , lack of emotional depth , experimentation with their body parts, it feels as if this kind of women enjoy constant negativity, there never want their problem to be solved, they just want to complain and tell their sad story to gain sympathy, as if they have no other goal in their life, in other word a pure 'Stress Puppy' , I think this type of mentality leads women to the third type of mentality.

3. Emotionally Compromised Mentality : Before we discussed about women with these mentality, let me tell you a Hindu Mythological story of goddess Kali and Rakth Beej ( Blood Seed ) , when Rakth Beej attacked the heaven then all god came to lord Shiva and told him everything , then lord shiv and all the god requested goddess Parvati to destroy the demon, then Parvati transformed herself into Kali goddess of Rage, Death and destruction, she went naked with her weapon in one hand and a vessel to collect the blood on the other, actually rakth beej demon had a power, that is where ever his blood will fall the demon will regenerate again, so to stop him from regenerating Kali had to kill the demon without letting the blood drop on the ground, so she started decapitating demon rakth beej and collecting the blood in the vessel, and drinking it , stabbing and drinking , stabbing and drinking was going on for days , she used to decapitate him and drink his blood , but somehow few drops always fell on the ground and the rakth beej regenerated again and again, she had to stop him from regenerating so she started hanging the demons head on her neck , so that blood should not drip on the ground from the decapitated head, soon the decapitated head became garland around her neck, more she killed more enraged she became finally she managed to kill the demon , but it was too late she had become so enraged she started destroying everything and everyone whoever came in her proximity, the gods were scared so Lord Shiva feel on her feet to stop her, finally she calm down when she saw her husband lying on her feat begging her to stop. If you read this story carefully you will see actually it talks about women's destructive nature, how it started from transformation to kill the demon and continued after the demon was long dead, she lost her control she had to be stopped by an external force, similarly Emotionally compromised women show this destructive nature, in other words this kind of women has no emotional brake, this destruction can be internal or external both

A. Internal Destruction : one and only reason for internal destruction is deep seeded sub-conscious desire of seeking male domination over her, meaning women who have this type of mentality somehow wants to be dominated by male, if she doesn't gets the desire fulfilled by a man then she might turn to religion especially those religion who dominates women ,not only that she will suddenly turn to false sense of purity, completely forgetting her true identity, this deep seeded desire of women is like, Goddess Kali on path of destruction, but this time destruction is negative and internal, and it follows similar pattern of destruction, women with this kind of mentality first loose self-confidence then self-identity, this kind of internal destruction leads her to external destruction, actually for this condition not just women is responsible but her society and her family is also responsible, because they forced her to transform , and she transformed and started killing the rakth beej inside her , but she don't realize the demon is long gone and the external force ( in this case her boyfriend or husband ) who was supposed to bring her back actually wants her to stay in that state of destruction, because it somehow serve their purpose of controlling her, in other words they reinforces her belief.

B. External Destruction: internal destruction ultimately leads to external destruction, for example her family member may start disliking her, close relative, friends everyone will start disliking her, because of her obsession of seeking male domination over her, this may lead to her spiraling down the emotional rabbit hole, and where it will end no one knows, because women has no brake when it comes to emotions.

According to my assumption they are the Trojan horse of modern women society, women with these kind of mindset form groups and try to hijack the whole idea of women and feminism, due to which true beauty of women never comes out, actually these groups are very dangerous because they dilute or attack the basic fundamental which makes women special, that is "uniqueness" , as we all heard ' Every women is unique ' this groups basically are against that idea, now don't get me wrong as I am not against group or organization formed by women, but this groups or organization should empower women not confuse them, not only that women in Afghanistan, Pakistan , Iran , they need strong women organization, but not in western countries as there women's right condition is much better then these countries.

But this mindset or mentality is just an construct created by women, and it's not rigid its flexible in nature, and can be corrected, women who are suffering from this type mindset or mentality, has to realize that she is the creator of life , every men ever walked or will walk or walking , are created by women ,if son of god, prophet of god, or even god himself wants to come here ( earth ) has to come through a woman, so men don't have the power to decide her fate, only a true women ( physically and mentally ) can define herself truly, women are the gate keeper of this realm.