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Chapter 4 - DO NOT RESTRICT YOUR MIND

Do not restrict your mind

" IF THERE IS A BURDEN IN MIND, YOUR BRAIN WILL NOT WORK NORMALLY".

It is very good and important to have a good parent, who pushes you beyond what you thought was the limit imposed by your circumstance. As how Albert Einstein said, " look deep into nature you will understand more".

I was born into a perfect family and we are leaving well, on how to become great people. I just finished my senior school certificate examination waiting for the result, my dream is to continue further into higher institutions, but I don't have the opportunity to continue further, so my parent decide that I should go to an Arabic school in order not stay in the for nothing, but I don't feel for the opportunity because that was a dream, my dream is to become a lawyer.

Later, I decided to go to Arabic school to furthermore, because I have to do what will make them happy with me and also I don't want to stay home any longer. I felt like a failure, unable to cope with this hard we use there am faded up, I called my mom and cried maybe it will help me confuse my father to change his decision on me. My mother, on the other hand, pushed me for greatness, but in my mind, I felt I couldn't continue this anymore.

I let my fear of failure keep me going in Arabic because I don't understand what our teachers used to teach us. It took me one year until I realized I didn't want to live my life without knowing Arabic and Islamic education, I follow my mind and I decided to regain my strength and study well.

Immediately I remember this was not my dream and I think I lost my dream when I finished my senior school certificate examination my dream.

I started focusing on my study but still, I was timid and am not comfortable with the new dream mine, I carried fear away from my heart, I worked harder than my classmates if it took them two hours to study it would take me four hours. But I am not striving against them; I am striving for myself, pushing and working beyond the pain, and frustration to succeed.

I spent countless nights trying to get each study perfect and flawless, re-study every subject to make it correct, and still I had flaws, mistakes, and errors that make me feel like a failure.

It comes as a surprise to me but not to my parent that I manage to graduate with top grades in my class.

I shed tears whenever I get low marks and I get frustrated, but I keep going beyond my limits. Do not restrict your mind, keep improving with every mistake you make, And you will have fortunate enough to find your strength more than your mistakes.

Do not restrict your mind, our bodies may have limits we can only stand certain temperatures; we can only go a limited amount of time without air. But our minds forget their limits. Those with limited mindsets will work within their limit and stay within the comfort zones that allow them to feel contentment with a sense of conformity.

" If we step into the success having fear of losing, we can never win".