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Chapter 4 - Day 2: Learn to Love by loving yourself

Edwina smiled. And when she looked closer, she saw Ron again. He walked to their table and asked, please can I distract you ladies? He said, mum how are you doing? Edwina you look great this morning, how are you? They all responded respectfully and happily.

Edwina was so relaxed and filled with love. She was so blessed to have met him again. She said you look smart in your blue shirt. He smiled and said thanks. Then he left them and said enjoy your meeting.

When he left, Glow said are you learning? Do not allow any external thing to affect your peace. Ron is a great guy. I am not saying this because he is my son. I am telling you because I know the gentleman he had become. This is because, he saw all that his dad and I did in our love lives.

Thanks for sharing this with me. I really appreciate it. I am blessed to have met you. Said Edwina. You are welcome, responded Old Glow.

Now how can you love by loving yourself? Asked Old Glow. Edwina, before I answer this question and activity for the day, I would like to tell you something: without peace you cannot be happy and you cannot love and be loved. These three virtues are very important.

Accepting life is peace. That is your destiny. What is taking care of you on a daily basis. Religiously that is called Faith. We have no idea how we made it to earth. And even the thoughts of other people, especially these guys that we are desperate to love. And when we are free of all conflicts, and peaceful in our lives, then the next step is to acquire the second virtue called Happiness.

Happiness is accepting you. That is your function. As a woman, you have three functions as a Sister, Wife and Mother. A lady is a sister to all. She is a mother to all if it is in her destiny or life path. Not every woman can be a mother. A lady will be a wife and not wives.

Now Edwina, I am coming to your activity for the day. You can be happy when you have peace. Peace is an inner gift. If you are peaceful, you will attract a guy who will be peaceful or not. If this guy is already peaceful, you will not have any work to do. And this cannot attract love. The other side is, if the guy you meet is not 100% peaceful, then you have a great work today in his life. It is this that will form the foundation of love. Then the next step will lead to self-discovery.

Now we will start on your self-discovery. I will take you through your Discover-U series. This series will help you discover your Life Path, the day you were born, the month, your challenges, your pinnacles, your major cycles etc. All these will help you understand yourself and others. Do not forget that we are not all the same. Some will love you and others will hate you. Not really hate, but will not agree with you. This is because we are all unique.

Knowing yourself is the key to happiness. If a lady is in a hurry to fall in love and she has no knowledge about the other person, love will always prove itself. Both of you will go through a lot of problems in the relationship. The secret to love is take time and study people and understand them and know how to help them.

Now let us begin with Life Path's. Edwina has been very quiet today. She was really lost. She didn't believe that she had to know all these before she can really have the right person in her life. She asked Old Glow, mum please is it necessary to know all these? Old Glow responded, yes. If a guy know that you know something about him, and you know how to help him in life and accept him, he will fall in love with you easily.

But it is not about them. It is always about us. They attracted to a lady who understands herself and knows what she wants. And they attracted to a lady who values and respect herself.

Let's get started:

We are going to take the life paths of a few people and we will analyze them. These people are both male and female. And after we are done with them, I will ask you about your life path and we will discuss it. Okay, replied Edwina. Glow looked at her sturdily. She asked, you look dull or a little bit lost. Edwina responded, yes please a little bit. I will be fine. It is giving the knowledge that there is a lot to love and relationship and even marriage. All we need is time to study and know each other, then we can grow gradually together.

Yes, yes, Glow I am very ready. Let's move on.

So we will start with Life Path 1

Life Path Number 1 – INDEPENDENT INDIVIDUAL

Our character for Life Path One will be called Sandy.

Our Life Path 1 story about Sandy begins….

Sandy was born on the 23rd March, 2000. So let's calculate her life path number as follows:

Her date of birthday: 23/3/2000

Please let's calculate by adding all the numbers:

2+3+3+2+0+0+0=10=1+0=1

This means Sandy is truly a life path one. And this information below also applies to both male and female. But in this case we are using Sandy. And of course David which we may use some other time will also have the same life path information.

Now let us go in detailed about a life path one. From the introduction, 1 is an independent number. So it explains that, Sandy is an independent individual.

She is the Independent Individual and a leader of leaders of the world. Her greatest gift is her uniqueness and originality. She is strong-minded, self-sufficient, and extremely capable. However, she had to go through several obstacles to acquire her independence fully.

However, she often feel alone. On the one hand, she want to belong and be a part of the team. She likes to stand out from the crowd and be different.

Once she learns to lead alongside others rather than dominating from above, she make an outstanding manager and leader.

Sandy rarely accept defeat, and she never, ever gives up with this I can testify to it.

When she feels mentally stimulated and challenged, she can build highly successful careers. She is blessed with the gift of inventing creative yet practical solutions to everyday challenges and dilemmas.

She is a talented problem solver who thinks outside the box. And of course she prefers to start things rather than finish them. She tries hard to make a difference and try her best to get things done.

This is what alerts her when she is not living in her life path:

She realize that she lacks:

· The confidence

· And motivation

To be independent, lead, or take control.

Then Sandy without going to any life coach, will have to learn and adopt to her life path traits. It is with only this that she can have balance in her life.

So her parents had this information early and they helped her to have the best education. They motivated her and helped her to increase her confidence through leadership roles.

If you are a life path one, you will notice that you find it difficult to be a follower. But being a follower is even a great gift of humility. This is because the number one is ruled by the Sun and it increases ego.

Life is a journey of self-discovery for all of us, but for Sandy and all life path 1's, that is their life purpose. They are to help and lead others to discover their life purpose. Self-awareness, along with an understanding of how they relate to others, is their main area in need of focus in this life.

Also it is their main purpose is to be great leaders and help other leaders to discover themselves.

Sandy's Positive life and that of all life path ones:

She is gifted and innovative thinker with extremely creative mind. By using Creative visualization to direct her powerful thoughts toward the accomplishment of her goals, she can manifest her dreams with greater ease.

Once Sandy have worked through her self-confidence and identity issues, she have much potential for success.

Sandy is a groundbreaking pioneer, she paves the way toward new-and-improved ways of life. Sometimes she has an abrupt tone, intolerance, and she might be hypersensitivity to criticism.

This might not be for all life path 1's. This is because the day of birth and month of birth might also play a major role. Apart from, that she is the best person to turn to for leadership and guidance.

Below are Sandy's Strengths and all life path 1's:

· Independent

· Pioneering

· Courageous

· Innovative

· Original

· Self-motivated

· Determined

· Strong-willed

· Creative

· Trendsetting

Also her Weaknesses and all life path 1's:

· Impatient

· Insecure

· Egotistical

· Self-centered

· Controlling

· Competitive

· Abrupt

· Bossy

· Opinionated

· Aggressive

Sandy's Life Lessons and all life path 1's

The major lessons that Sandy and all number 1s need to learn in this lifetime are:

· To become self-aware

· To harmonize with others

· To embrace their individuality

· To utilize their creative power

· To be diplomatic, patient, and tolerant

· To lead alongside others

· To love and believe in themselves

· To master their aggression

Edwina was so excited and couldn't control herself. She said to Glow, Please let us continue this journey. It is too new to me, I just love it. Let's continue the discovery....