My life took a turn for the better when I realized that I didn't have to be nice all the time. Being nice had led to me being used, stressed out, and disrespected. I discovered that I could still be a good person without always being nice. There's a significant difference between the two.
Being good means being honest, setting boundaries, and taking care of yourself without compromising your values. When I started prioritizing these principles, I found that my interactions became more genuine and fulfilling. I was no longer seeking temporary approval; instead, I was earning real respect.
Nice might win you short-term affection, but it rarely leads to lasting respect or meaningful connections. By honoring my truth and standing firm in my values, I began to attract the right people and experiences into my life. I have no regrets about this shift—it's brought me closer to my authentic self and created deeper, more authentic relationships.