A real relationship is the one where your love for your partner is much higher than your ego where your understanding of each other's feelings is greater than your conflicts.
Where your emotional bonding is so strong that the fights cannot survive for longer than a few minutes where there is so much intimacy, honesty and freedom that there is no room jealousy.
Where you respect each other's personal space and where there no space for a third person to come in between a real relationship is the one where you treasure and treat each other's heart as your own.
A real relationship is not a struggle for control, domination or power it is a struggle for making your bond and stronger each day with more love, peace and harmony a real relationship is where both partners get inner peace just being with each other and where all the conflicts and fights end up in each other's arms.