Hey Guys ! It's me Mausam Acharya from Jhapa Nepal. I am just studying in Grade 12 at my hometown. I have some things to write here. I am just 18 years old. At this age we cannot focus on our carrier and study because of love. So now what is love ? Love is a natural thing which cannot be avoided. It is process of sharing feelings and emotions. It's is of two types:
1. Love for Things
2. Love for Humans
1. Love for Things :
In this process of love a boy or a girl loves a thing. For example: If a boy love a car then he focus only it to achieve it. He cares secrectly for that car, he sees, he aks help to buy it etc. He can't share his feelings and emotions to that car but he have those feelings for it.
2. Love for Humans :
In this process a boy or a girl falls for humans. They get attracted on their personality, habits,behaviours,study, wealth, face, etc. They get serious about it. They can't avoid it because they get addicted on them. Now , some falls for friendship and some falls for love. In friendship a man call fall for his same gender person or for an opposite gender person. They share their feelings,emotions, etc.
Disadvantages of love:
Some of them use peoples feelings and emotions in the name of friendship/love by blakcmailing , by bullying etc. They just use their time as well as their fellings, emotions, etc. And for those who have been misused can't share anything what happend to them, who did beacause they had a pure feelings for them. And they just choose to suicide. And their life gets ended. But it doesn't impact to those who just use them for their benefits. What they did is first they get closer and closer where both feels comfortable and to those things what they need. For example : A boy wants for physical relationship where the girls denied it but the boys makes her believe that he never leave her, he would marry ,we continue our relationship after it and many more fake promises. And the girl finally accept it and comeon to a physical relation.And then the boys uses a girl whenever he need .And at finally he broke up with her by doing many more excuses like family get informed about us, we cannot continue our relation. And he leaves her and she cannot share it with anyone because our society judges the girl as characterless, witch etc. And then no option will left and she just suicide.
Advantages of Love :
If both of the lovers have true feelings and emotions then it is called true love. Where both of them understand each other, trust each other, etc. They support each other for their where they can focus on what they need .
Preventions form Fake love:
You just need to be careful first . You should know who the one is getting close towards you. You just need to pay attention on what you are doing or what you have to do. You should ignore the outer world for your better future. Just don't get adddicted on social media such as Instagram, Facebook, Twitter ,Tiktok etc. You should to schedule for a day what to do. You should watch motivations videos.
You must have to think that you are a best person in the world. God creates you for the change of world. So remember that You have to achieve something in life to make them jealous who couldn't understand you.
Thank you for reading.😊💖