you think for a moment that the life of a girl is only for sacrifice, she thinks more about another feeling instead of thinking about herself, and she sacrifices herself in order not to see others sad, sacrifice starts from the beginning of life from her family house, all the time must take care of what she says and what she does in order not to heart other, they teach her not to express not to say I don't want all the time must say ok or deal, they teach her to apologize and to respect other to be polite they teach her that there are rules in life you are a girl, not a boy concern on your behavior, not all thing permit to girL to do, you are different you must be in the home specific time you must help a mother in the house duties, your duty is like this and this contrary of what they give to a boy, the boy can help his father can be outside the home for a late hour, he can be president, engineer... a lot of things that the society prevent the girl to do it, this is all concern in the role of society and raising children , its hard to talk about the decision you take in your life inorder not to let your family mom or dad sad from youu ,maybe this decision in marriage or in education, something will relate to society in sacrifice inorder not to let anybody judge on you or talk about you badly, also in marriage life you face sacrifay in another way , you must sacrify of everything for your family , no time for your self you sacrifice of everything inorder to let other happy , you must not think of your self and your beauty because learning of your children is more important ,you can wear any thing you have in clossest but you must buy to your children new thing , you must leave your future and hopes and think only for your family , your time is not for you ,you must also sacrifice of your family (your mom and dad) inorder to satisfy your husband as if only he who have family and you is broken from a tree, inorder to choose your future and future of your children you must sacrify of marriage life and your children inorder to reach what you want you will see what i mean in next chapters