Marriage
Marriage is something we all think is special, something we have to do, it's like a lifelong not lifetime commitment because we couples nowadays can leave ourselves at anytime , yes you could say that it's really more special to woman, it's like a every woman dream to see her Prince charming but what if that her very dream will give her a black chapter..
Many woman of today prefer to be single mothers, Why?, do we have an answer for that; No right!, they don't care about what society says about them, they just want to be alone, have we ever considered the reasons, No i guess.
Yeah truly there are ups and downs in marriage but do we really have to go on with it, must we persist even if it means dying in the process.
We have had lot of cases like that all over the world, yes we can't put all the blames on the man, because they are not the main problem.
The main duty of a woman is for her to make sure that her home is peaceful that's something we all know while the main duty of a man is to cater for the family but i don't think it should be that way, we all use the System which is " a man is the head of the family", am not saying it is false but in a marriage a man and woman are both responsible for upholding the marriage.
Why do we go for marriage counselling?, why do misunderstanding occur, what causes rift in a marriage, what causes the marriage to break and shatter,what makes a wife and husband to be promiscuous in their marital life , what kill the love in the marriage and what affect it? , there are lot of questions to be asked and answers to be filled because these are the least of the causes.
Now i would like to ask you, yes you the one reading this book right now, why do you think marriage break apart, these things are really confusing, a happy home gets destroyed just like that,the marriage that was going smoothly just break apart like that, why.. what is the cause..
In a marriage the wife and the husband must always be in harmony, at any time a misunderstanding can happen, at any time a fight can happen and it is up to the wife to handle it because man has always been known for being hot headed, believing they are head of the family and can make all choices but they are very caring so the wife must always understand the husband, when a matter happen resolve it or betterstill apologize.
Nowadays happy home don't last long, maybe because we have forgotten the importance or because we take it for granted thinking there are lot of ladies out there, when a misunderstanding happens the wife must know how to pacify her husband and likewise the man too..
A man is like the pillar and the wife a supporter we should always remember that.
Have we ever asked ourself the meaning of the promise and vows we promised ourself when we were getting married , we promised ourself that we will be together through thick and thin we promised ourself that no matter what we will stick together, As a man you promised you would always take care of your wife, did we think it was a joke when we were saying that..
People don't think again that marriage is important anymore, we just know we are getting married just because we have to, we are getting married just because we were forced to, we are getting married because i wish to and want to have a baby, we are getting married because I want to settle down or because the man is Rich, well isn't that so!
When we get married instead of you to stay commited to your husband you go ahead to have another spouse outside, you go ahead and share what should belong to your husband alone and likewise the man too, yes I believe that yes it's not mostly your fault but the behavior your wife portrayed or your husband did, you should never care about that, we aren't kids anymore we should think diligently, we shouldn't get fed up of each other, we should always stand together, what we don't Know is that the way we behave is the way our children will behave, when you fight with your husband think about your children what they will learn about you...
But there are some instance in a marriage where you don't have to endure it means you weren't meant to be together, well I think am being too long in this chapter let's explain more in the next chapter..☞￣ᴥ￣☞