Everyone is looking for someone to blame, someone to say i am right, I am the best, but no one is ready to deal with their own flaws. Unreal is real, it seems unreal that we actually say something to someone but unable to act by self. Likewise people taught their kids not to fight, be good to others but actually they are not good even with their partner and parents. So the real fact is to follow your own voice. Stop taking unnecessary advice and act yourself.