Sex is the exchange of saliva, energy and sass. But when we talk about sex, it's like it didn't matter or doesn't have importance like it's just a game we play or a hobby we do, or an act we take advantage of because we can make out with any one as long as they are available or okay with it. Well, making love does have weight and it's a serious act between couples or lovers. Eversince the world began, the Creator always say on the Bible that his people are his bride and He is the groom. God made Adam and Eve and through them generation after generations came until now and forever. Great people like Abraham, King David, Jesus and more after them came to honor God and with their love and devotion to the Almighty, they were blessed. Just like we are if we just open our hearts to Him.
That's why I don't like using the word sex but love making, because I believe that the word sex is just a casual thing that people do like playing clash of clans or eating ice cream and after that we've forgotten why we did it. That's why the Church made it clear that we marry first before doing the act or union between the husband and wife, for it is a sacred act to bond them together, that they are no longer two but one with God and the gift of matrimony.
Though I didn't marry but lived in with my ex-partner before, I still believe in marriage and it's binding power between lovers or a couple. We just didn't have the just to do it and when we try to plan to get married it will always face hindrances which we aren't able to control, until I decided to separate with him. But it's not me we are talking about here, but all of you who want to have a lasting and wonderful realtionship. With or without marriage it will still come back to you and your partner or lover. Both of you will need to work and commit to one another, in joy, sadness, hardship or bliss. Meaning even if you're not married yet, both of you should've been prepared for what's coming inside a love or union, a bond between you and your partner. It is never easy to live with someone you met and haven't been with for a long time. But learning about each other is the first step to get to know the real thing about your partner and he/she would get to know about you too. At first, it is hard to let go and let him/her in your heart or the true you because you'll definitely have your own limits, biases and restrictions on your likes, dislikes, wants and desires in life, love and relationships. The beauty about opening up for the one you love is that, you try your best to let them inside you, your heart and your fears, doubts or confusions. You now get to understand your self more with another person who wants to get to know you and wanted a deeper view of who you are and what you need with him/her or your relationship with your partner, and vise versa.
When I got the chance and desire to make love with my ex-partner, my daughter's dad in our recent years together, it was awkward. He was the shy type and I was the aggressive one. Maybe because I never had the experience of having sex yet why I wanted to try it out out of wed lock. He never insisted but I did, well, I thought he was my soul mate and then after a while we clicked. My ex-partner and I did the act after two years of courting and it took six years for us to get pregnant and have our daughter, who is so beautiful and so smart at nine years old today.
Procreation or sex is God's way to make men and women to inhabit the world. But the act isn't a tool we use to do it anywhere, everywhere and whoever we want to, for there's always a consequence after having sex with someone we know or don't know. Having sex and exchanging energy with another person is pleasurable and most of the time electrifying, addicting or magnetizing. We still need to remember that the act itself is sacred, it is done by blessed couple who are joined together and bounded by love why they make love and procreate.
It's never the intention that we use sex as a pleasure play thing (along with the sex toys available out there which I 'm never against or want to argue on) or just to do around when we're bored or got nothing to do. Marriage and union through sex in this sacrament is a higher form of divinity. We feel ecstacy and pleasure doing the act and making love is an extention, a small taste of 'heaven' (which we can only experience when we die, heaven, the last place we will be on, the kingdom of God which we call our true Home). That's why I say that sex, love making, is sacred, because it truly is and having been able to experience the ecstacy just like when saints, priests or servants of God feel His presence, it is like making love with God but He in turn send his love and affection that make us feel that overwhelming happiness and overflowing joy to the heart which we couldn't explain. It's the same thing as making love, the feeling is full of mixed emotions, you don't know if you want to cry or laugh or smile., or want to do it again with the same person. But all in all, sex, making love, love making or screwing (slang for sex), is a divine act that we need to ponder on, respect and do only with the one we love, our partner or wife/husband in life and love. Happy sexing!