This step is very important for young people to consider as people say it is better not to build a house you will demolish and build another, than to make a mistake in choosing a life partner. Even the god in the bible said in the first book that it is not right for this man to sit alone and make us a helper like him. What does it mean for a helper to be like him? does he look like you in words? does he look like you in action? That helper must be like you in every way. the ancients also said that life is ruined when you make the second thing first, and the first one second. You will have to choose a wife or husband to live with who will be suitable for adversity and pleasure for health and disease for life or death, a woman or a man who will endure all conditions and who knows God very well. Many marriages today break up because of poor choices, many couples today get married because of poor choices, many marriages have conflicts today because of poor choices. Many couples today are in dire straits because of poor choices, children living without a father or a mother because of poor choices. What can we do now to get rid of all this move with me on the next page.