Never believed that actually one can find their soulmates always thought it something you build along the way in the relationship. In my community as it is most time parents are the ones that do connections because as they say they have better experience and always know whats best tho most are now going against this norm and finding their own other-halves they feel comfortable enough to stay with, also misconception of what marriage should be most end up in union for different reasons others marry because they want a comfortable life where one partner is already established in life.
A soulmate is a gift from God to mankind, when u finally find the one you connect so deeply believe me you will not care who they are and what they are what matters is that strong bond that u will share instantly no need for questions because there will be none conversation will flow easily you can talk for hours or when you see each other u forget where you are because your solely concentration is on that halo that they only have, well me speaking from my own experience we all relate to love in a different way according to religion or upbringing but at the end of it all God gave us love and we all need it in our lives just like a moth is attracted to light love attracts us humans on a different level and cant live without.
He's halo was so strong that amidst all the people around he shown brighter and was attracted to his light like a moth i grew up with a very strict father the girls were never allowed to move outside the gate unless if being sent for something but also your timed u come back late that your expected then you will have to answer or be punished and then later had to leave home and be with my brothers family well the welcome there on the side of the wife was a forced one and had to endure that hatred from her for 6 yrs not an easy stay but i learnt to be stronger and independent i learnt how to love myself at an early age and knew what i wanted in life even tho there were mistakes made but that's how you learn . I gave birth at an early age immediately after university to who i thought was my best friend at that time we were comfortable with each other in that when i lost my father i sought comfort from him and thus resulting to pregnancy which we went ahead and had but due to society standards there were cultural norms we were supposed to perform and never did which eventually by the way saved my life because along in our first year so much changed he was a mummy's boy who refused to grow up expecting me to take care of him and family which i later refused i mean a man should be a man not remain a boy and moved on with my life i concentrated on work there on with a few relationships but all were disappointing until i met his light.
As i right this now is because we have both realized we are soulmates yes he is married but what do you do when you both need each other do you ran or do you openly accept what the universe has blessed you with. we all have one life to live and am not going to deny myself true love just because of what others say. At least i know the road i have chosen and will walk it with my head held high. he makes me a better person i have done and achieved so much with him being in my life hes a natural born leader and he takes life serious just as he takes me serious than anyone has ever done so am going to let love happen for as long as it allows me