At the age of 25 ,my mom married to a 30 year old man .He is a government teacher . I was the first child of my mother ,my case was very complicated after this she gave birth to me.The moment she saw me she adored me.
When I got admission at my school in nursery class,I was very shy .So, I didn't make friends until ,I go to 6th class. In 2nd terminal of exams I got 82% .When ,my mom knows about this .She goes very angry ,she told me that I am not good in house work as well as studies .She was angry but she was crying inside .I can feel .After scolding me very much ,She came to my room and apologized to me for scolding very much
I was very shocked that ,how someone can manage everything politely even it's anger and her tears.
That 's why I worked very hard and take 95% in 3rd term .She was very happy on that moment
When I reached at 8th standard ,one of the my friend say that if her mom do 40% work than she do 60% work at home ,and MY most of the friends was agree with her.I was very disappointed
My mom's mother always praises my mom 's work
And my mom never show off that she do more work as compared to her brother's wife
My mom was elder daughter of my mom's mother .She grew up in joint family, she have to do work at her father's brother's house and also at her own home ,she have to do work at outside in fields with her grand mother,she has to take care of cows,Buffalo etc .Afterthis she never showoff about her work and also never complained about this .She also completed her studies andshe is M.A in music
I know that thing from my mom's mother because one day when,
My mom was asking for tea but I was too tensed for my studies then I screamed at my mom ,please give me some space you don't know even about a single word about studies .My mom says nothing ,but my brother heard everything and then he told everything about this to my mom's mother
She told me that my mom wants to do work outside but she skipped her aims of her life for giving me her best time .Because ,I was her complicated case ,SO, I need special time .
Some times ,My father also say bad things to my mom for a simple housewife
I DON'T know how she will feel for this
But I know one thing that most of the child do a same behavior with their moms ,and most of the mom do most of the sacrifice for their child.But no one appreciate to them for their work
My mom is a wonderful, I think every mom is wonderful lady