The writer has changed names to protect victims & better address unnamed perpetrators, all of whom were the personal accounts of real men.
There aren't many prevention sites for men to prevent them from being raped by men or women. You CAN use the tips given to women for yourselves, however.
THIS CHAPTER IS NOT TO Condemn THE VICTIM AT ALL, and some people feel like rape deterrence information is blaming the victim, but that IS NOT what it is. It's to save the victim and keep them safe, just like when we purchase tasers, guns, and pepper spray. So it's not to blame women who don't go out with these things; it is to shield them.
This form of sexual attack prevention for men is to EDUCATE guys on how sexual assault can happen to men.
In this prevention, we're not talking about female victims, we are talking about male sufferers of assault. I've learned this from accounts of men whom females have nearly raped. This chapter is not a gag post. It is serious, and THIS IS NOT A JOKE.
1. Rape CAN happen to Men
Some women nearly raped men. One intoxicated woman tried to rape a man, we'll call her Jane, and him Tony; Jane got on top of Tony drunk, Tony was not interested, but Jane tried to force herself on him. Tony is stronger than Jane, so he fights her off after a struggle.
Nevertheless, Rapists are sly. I've heard stories from men whom women raped, and either the men were children (Under 13) In their teenage years.
One of the victims we will call "Dewi," had been plied with alcohol & raped at 14 by a 40-year-old woman whose real name is Molly Shattuck. After "Dewi" said no twice while drunk, both times, he was raped orally inside & outside of her residence.
2. DO NOT TAKE DRINKS FROM STRANGERS
Remember when I said Rapists are crafty? THEY PLAN THEIR Methods.
One man plotted an entire strategy to lure in female victims. It taught me that anyone could be this way.
For females, please don't go to anyone's home that you don't know or think you know; he'd lure in ladies like that.
For men, do not take beverages from strangers nor go to her place.
Many men have said that women have drugged them.
Because some men have been able to prevent women from raping them, I think something clicked in the mind of a female rapist. She knows she may fail, so instead of forcing him while he is conscious, she tries to rape him while he is unconscious.
Men may still be at risk in the company of their friends. One gentleman, we will call Josh, was in the car with his friends, and they let a girl, we will dub Sarah, in the automobile with him.
Sarah had put something in his drink and given it to him without him knowing earlier, so when he passed out, she forcibly raped him while he was unconscious in the car with his friends.
His friends did not aid him, and they considered it amusing. Once he woke up, they told him all about his rape -- And laughed at his rape. He did not find his sexual assault funny, and men do not enjoy rape just because the rapist is a woman.
In another case of men being date raped, a woman invited a man over to her house, and we will name the woman "Alma" and the man "Rayhan." Rayhan went to Alma's house, and Alma offered him a drink; he expected to be able to have a drink and still be conscious like everyone does.
The drug Alma had put in his drink knocked him out, so Alma raped him, and later on, after figuring out what happened, Alma texted him and told him that she was pregnant with his child.
This next one was on Steve Wilkos.
There was a woman, whom we will give the alias Saba and a man known as Zayn. Zayn had become drunk & Saba took advantage of him. It's illegal to have sex with an intoxicated person while sober because you are taking advantage of that person.
A drunk person literally cannot consent; the more you drink, the more relaxed your brain becomes to the point where brain cells are damaged, and you cannot rationally make sound choices.
"Saba" took advantage of "Zayn" & slept with him and openly admitted it on national television in front of Zayn.
Getting drunk alone in a public place is very dangerous. You are unable to defend yourself due to being highly intoxicated. The drunker you are, the more your brain relaxes and the less likely you are to be able to protect yourself.
Many men do not report. One woman had abused many children, openly admitted it, and was imprisoned. She said that she had even raped a baby.
As people, we need to believe men when they report rape. DO NOT insult a man for coming out, as it makes them less likely to do so. Remember "Dewi" and Molly Shattuck? Well, many people went into the comment section of the news report to support the victim, more than those who were not, but a lot abused him verbally and insulted his family For speaking out about his rape. Some people even cursed "Dewi" out.
Some people will tell men things like "Real men don't tell," and when one man we'll call "Kaleb" told people his mother raped him when he was 5, another man told "Kaleb" that he should have been happy that he got sex at such a young age.
Only a RAPIST will tell other men that "Real men don't tell."
3. Watch over your sons, mom & dad
Don't let your son go with any adult you don't know.
One woman raped a 5-7-year-old boy and claimed she wanted to marry him.
4. DO NOT KICK OUT YOUR CHILD.
Not even if they get pregnant or become a father early.
In Canada, some women solicit underage homeless men. These women would tell them they could be taken care of financially and given food, a home, and a car if they had sex with those women.
Those women would only let them live with them, would only feed them, clothe them, and get them on their feet if the men would give up their bodies.
With someone to help your child, especially if a baby is on the way, he may feel pressured to take up the offer & be taken advantage of, as this is a massive problem in Canada.