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Chapter 20 - A VERY BAD PLAN

Someone had blamed fatherlessness for most of the woes in education, infrastructure, and more.

However, this plan he has come up with will not help or worsen things.

HIS PLAN:

Children who do not have a father in the home are more likely to do poorly in school, more likely to go to prison, and less likely to give back to society instead of continuing the cycle of fatherlessness.

So if you want the education to get better, the infrastructure to get better, and if you wish for the nation to improve, you first need to remove any incentive for fathers to leave their homes.

Make it impossible for single moms to sustain themselves alone so that in the future, women will not take the chance of becoming single mothers.

Instead, create harsh penalties for men who get women pregnant and leave.

But on a more fundamental level, we must start shaming people who willingly become single parents.

Shame is an essential tool that leftists understand well, yet they often pretend that they don't like shame.

You could not have cancel-culture without shame; cancel-culture is the plot of The scarlet letter.

So since we already use shame, it's time to shame the people who are actually at fault here, men who leave their homes and leave their kids behind and women who have kids with men who are likely to go.

Internally you might be telling yourself, "ugh, that's like, victim blaming or something!"

But no. Women have the majority of the power in sexual relationships. Women are The gatekeepers of sex; therefore, it is their responsibility to keep out men who would impregnate them and then leave.

So, they have just as much responsibility in this mess as men who go, who you and I can already agree are scum.

So there you go, if you want to fix most of society's problems, don't look to the workplace or the government.

Look to the household.

What groups are most in trouble, well off, and what are the fatherlessness rates in each of these groups?

That isn't a coincidence, and it's not even a genetic thing, it's an actual social problem, and we must fix it through social means.

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While I UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU ARE SAYING, Making it impossible to support offspring as a single parent isn't a good IDEA.

You see, this won't stop the problem.

Most women don't even know which kind of men are the type to leave them.

It's not as simple as going out with an African American male.

It's typically where the man makes all these promises and charms women get into bed which, while, yes, the woman can choose to give up her virginity, think about who is partially causing the problem.

If the men were not pursuing her, we wouldn't have this issue, and males DO plan on how to get a girl.

Another issue is that there Are more reasons why a woman may leave her husband, or a woman may end up as a single mother.

Sometimes, it is due to a divorce.

Sometimes, it's completely unprecedented.

You see, a woman and her boyfriend were living together and had a child.

What happened was:

He was a gambler and had a safe where he kept his money.

One day, he discovered he didn't have the same money in his safe as he had left it.

He was confused, so he confronted his girlfriend about it.

As it turns out, his girlfriend was stealing his money from his safe to make purchases.

She treated it like it wasn't a bad thing.

He was upset about that, so while she went out shopping, he took his two-year-old at the time and dropped the baby off at her parents' house.

After doing so, he took a plane and went to another state.

His life went down to chaos in that state.

Many men felt terrible for him because his life went into chaos after he left his family, but I focused on the fact that he had just left his son.

It wasn't as if he was angry at his son or anything.

He was mad at the mother and didn't even consider his son.

His choice and decisions were just about his emotions.

He knew he couldn't leave his son alone that day.

He never wanted to take him with him, so he just dropped him off as if he didn't have a good relationship with his two-year-old or love him.

So, when she came back home, not only was her son missing but so was the father.

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Two more cases to understand:

Rape.

A woman cannot simply allow a RAPIST to raise her child.

If she does so, he may rape her child.

That can result in child abuse as the rapist will rape the baby.

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Abuse:

A woman may not know that her lover is abusive, so he hides that fact until they are dating or married.

He manipulates her and tries his best to keep her from leaving.

He may pick the woman specifically, so he picks a woman who won't leave him.

After doing such, she may desire to leave this marriage or relationship regardless.

Making it impossible for women to support kids alone will cause more issues for the mother and the child.

The child may get abused, but the mother stays with her abuser for monetary reasons.

The mother's abuse will harm the child's mental health if [s]he isn't abused, so she should leave.

Even in cases where these women are supported, but other single moms aren't, this may result in the women not being accounted for and thus not getting care.

That can also cause problems for women that the police do not believe unless the law states there can be support for any woman who makes an accusation.

A woman may feel the need to lie to gain financial support.

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Women may also have issues with their husbands or the fathers of the children going to jail for both true and false accusations. She may not have known he was a criminal in the first place.

Some women have husbands in the army who die on the frontlines.

Some Women have husbands who have died in other cases.

Making things harder for women as a whole will occur.

Some siblings have to raise younger siblings, and children may be raped, making parents too young.

The children will have to take up jobs.

Poor communities and homelessness will increase.

More women may not be able to afford good schooling.

That will worsen education as women will still be single moms, but this does not help.

Kids may be too tired due to working multiple jobs or stressed out from them or their mom being pimped Or selling drugs even.

Adoptive moms will suffer because they took these children in out of a want for a child, or they may have to due to situations they cannot control.

Like a grandma's daughter dies, she must take the children.

Even when the problem is just financial, it'll result in more abortions.

Mothers will give up children for adoption.

More children will be in foster care.

Higher child abuse rates because the moms may not be able to cope and child abandonment in either trash cans or the street, etc.

That will also make the child's life more problematic as the goal is to make it impossible for the single mom to care for her child alone,

If the goal is to make your parents unable to support you, how will that affect the child?

If the mom cannot put food on the table, the child will not eat.

If the mom can't keep the lights on, the child cannot see.

If the mom can't get the water bill, the child cannot bathe.

f the velocity is off, the child cannot cook the food and may have to settle for precooked or raw veggies.

If you make a law where only the child gets support, Not only would this leaves mothers uncared for, women would feel driven to give their kids up for adoption, and abortion rates rising,

Whether legal or illegal, the child will have to deal with trying to help support their mothers in return.

And those cases are if the financial problems caused by the government to lower the number of single mothers are making life unbearable for these single moms.

If not, you'll have even more issues:

Taking moms away from their babies will create emotional heartache, and putting the kids in foster care may ruin their lives.

Threatening to harm or kill the mother may result in women hiding children or having abortions at mass scales.

Children will have no parents and lose all faith, hope, or belief in God.

Causing women to lose jobs or making it harder will ruin their life and their child's life and make women turn to abortion or give up children for adoption.

Kids may be kept away from their mothers by these adoptive parents, kidnapped, abused, neglected, and subjected to foster care which can involve all the abuse I've previously stated.

You also have to consider that there are already single moms who will be stuck with that decision, shame, etc. At the same time, they are doing their best to care for their child.

Making things a bit harder for them will make them resent their babies or their past choices, have abortions, and may even make them suicidal, DEPENDing on how bad the shaming is and their mental health.