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Chapter 5 - CHAPHTER III

人人有权在不受歧视,不受胁迫,不受暴力侵犯的情况下,负责任地自由决定何时生育,生育多少子女和时间间隔,并有权为此获得信息和办法,有权达到性卫生和生殖卫生最高标准(国际人口与发展大会,1994年).能够获得合法,安全和全面的人工流产和流产后医疗保健服务,对于达到尽可能高的性卫生和生殖卫生水平至关重要.以人工流产终止的妊娠占妊娠总数的十分之三.近一半的人工流产是不安全的,而且几乎所有这些不安全人工流产都发生在发展中国家.获得安全人工流产医疗服务,保护妇女和少女的健康和人权为保证人工流产的安全性,应采用世卫组织推荐的适合孕期的方法,并由具有必要技能的人员操作.安全的人工流产可包括使用片剂进行药物流产或通过门诊手术进行流产

女性如意外怀孕,在无法获得安全人工流产医疗服务时,往往会求助于不安全人工流产.不安全的人工流产情况指由缺乏必要技能的人员进行人工流产操作或操作环境不符合最低医疗标准,或两者兼有.人工流产之前,之中或之后不恰当的医疗条件构成人工流产不安全性的特征.

不安全人工流产可直接带来健康风险,包括死亡和慢性并发症,影响女性的身心健康和终生幸福,也给女性和社区带来经济影响.不安全人工流产手术涉及将物体或物质(根状物,枝条,导管或传统配方)插入子宫,不具备必要技能的人员错误地进行扩张宫颈和刮宫操作,摄入有害物质,施加外力等.

At the time of the fourth semester and the beginning of the fifth semester I started studying in China. there I got a dormitory and started studying there at the beginning of the lecture I was confused with Chinese but it was only 2 weeks because many friends and lecturers at the university as well as seniors helped me in speaking and fortunately in international class there is more English than Chinese. And also at the hospital where I practice all the staff and patients are very good for international class students we are very helpful. In China, I just felt a different and free friendship. During our holidays, we were invited to go for a walk and see the scenery that was still a village. There I was acquainted not strong with winter I often have allergies and nosebleeds.

There used to drink alcohol on holiday and it surprised me a little at the beginning but after a long time I got used to it and sometimes when I was on holiday I went out with friends and had fun like a child at my age being able to watch concerts and play at the mall and nightclubs on holidays. At that time my parents did not monitor me like in Indonesia. For six months I just found out the outside world was more pleasant at that time. After returning from there, there was a strangeness in my life, the behavior of my friends and lecturers at the midwifery campus in Indonesia at that time was different. I felt the beginning of my suffering when I was 20 years old.

I feel there is something strange with the behavior of all my classmates, which are like:

1. On the first day I came to campus I was bullied like in front of the door of the class above, a bucket filled with flour was provided when I opened the door my body was full of flour and my clothes were dirty. By several rich children and his father an official. for there are six of my friends in class who help me lend clothes and I take a bath in their boarding house near campus.

2. On the second day, the lecturer saw that I was always cynical and also scolded me impolitely and hated me in class for no reason, even though I was not treated well.

3. I was always humiliated in class and looked down upon by lecturers and students because the son of a retired TNI officer with the rank of sergeant major. The average students there are children of the rich and officials.

4. I was ostracized and even in class I was often treated badly when I wanted to eat, I was bullied until the food box I was carrying fell and my food was not fit to eat. I'm still lucky 6 of my friends as well as nuns from NTT want to accommodate me every day to eat at a rented house they know I'm not a rich kid's pension my dad's salary is only 2 million rupiah but I excel so my school fees are light and it's a habit every time I come home from school do it with my friends so I got home I came home late at night. I earn money to pay for my college needs by singing and sometimes helping the nuns in the church to sing hymns and make up the Christmas tree even though I have a different religion, but I like to sing and help the nun. As a religious tolerance, when it's time for me to pray, I give permission to pray.