For a relationship to work
The men must love the woman more
Because like that everything will be balance
But if the woman love the men more
Then he will take it as an excuse to do and undo.
Traumas.
You can tell your Partner about them.
But they might think, that was a long time ago.
And maybe even trigger them
Sad part is some will understand that hurts you or
They will say oh it wasn't me who case it.
That's is not part of love.