Yes, Anya was courteous to the woman who gave birth to Alvin. That doesn't mean she would let the woman look down on her. Anya wasn't a pushover to listen to every cr*p.
"Mrs. Wilson…" She turned to exit and Janet paused to look at her.
"I guess you didn't marry for love. You married an ambitious man who could afford your living and understand your entertainment industry."
The love she heard of doesn't expect the person to do something to keep them interested. If they lose interest and get attracted to another person, then that person never truly loved you.
Anya's deduction was right, "What do you mean?" Janet asked with a frown, finding no fault in her choice.
