oneness between friends

one day when iam studying first year bipc I have got a msg from an unknown number he messaged me and said hi 👋😊 I too said Hi 😊, our conversation has moving on we became friends.
our bonding has become very strong that we can friends to bestiees. We are having many flights between us but he use to say the sorry eventhough it's my mistake he Will not scolds me he says it's ok no need to say sorry. we have successfully completed our one year of our friendship and we have entered the second year...😄😄🤗.
All of a sudden his health was not good and that he didn't said a word to me 😒 after.... completing two days he told me that his health was not good I got angry 😠😡😤 and I started scolding him continusly because I was too worried about him I cared for him and I told to keep ur health good but he use to say what will happen for me if anything happens you are their to look after me so no need to worry 😊😉😘
If anything happens to me how much he worried and scolds me I used to be calm and silent and listens him 🙃🙃🙃...all of sudden due to some issues in my family as they said don't chat with boys I cannot able to chat with him as I was blocked him and cried 😭😢 😭 a lot as I thought I was going to lost a good friend 😔😔😥😢😭 after two days I started chatting with him 😊 and I was very happy and suddenly..
My family have known about this and scolds me but I don't want to lose him and I said to my family he was really good and he is my best friend what will happen if I chat with him... my parents said no I don't know what to do now 😔
what is going to happen we are getting Departed or what?
why there's so much gender discrimination what will happen if boy and girl will be a good friends.....
I just hope there could not be no gender discrimination between us