I had spent the days of my youth when she came into my life. It was the 28th year of my life when I was stuck in the mire of catastrophic sin.
A real fact of my life that is both the biggest lesson of my life and sin
On Sunday, August 7, I went to the swimming pool with my friends. On the way back, it started to rain heavily. We stopped at a hotel and had lunch. Suddenly, my number was called. Familiar and that was the number of a lady customer who was shopping in this our shop. The salesman was not allowed to use the mobile phone, a salesman would call the customer from my number. Whenever a new brand came, maybe she wanted to talk about it. I just knew how much this call would bother us going forward. I texted her today It's Sunday and on Sunday I'm on vacation so you can't talk to the person you want to talk to. I'll talk to you tomorrow. He thanked me. I briefly asked her name. I was told that my dearest friend was sitting next to me and he forbade me to do this wrong thing Regret it tomorrow.
She was a married woman who was three months older than me. She was a modern-day liberal woman. Her husband left for Saudi Arabia a month after the marriage and was employed in Saudi Arabia. But he did not return. Once her husband called her to Saudi Arabia and kept her for three months In six years of marriage, the couple had only been together for about four months. There were many complaints from her.
Gradually we became closer to each other and became claimants of love. She often said that her will power was dead but I didn't believe it. I don't think it was possible. We first went to the park and then to the hostel room. Arriving in Room and engaging in physical contact, she became the first non-mahram in 28 years of my lifeThere was a woman whose hand I touched and unknowingly went too far. We must meet once a week. Gradually my conscience started cursing me and my family started cursing me too. I told her when your husband If you don't have it, then take khula and marry me. I am a villager, She was a citizen and she did not want to leave me and she was not ready to marry me and the burden of sins was increasing day by day on our feet. Exactly two years after our relationship, her husband returned and she went to him. She started blocking me and one day she blocked me completely and left because she had an alternative Got it now she didn't need me she was attached to me only for her need and i was insistent for marriage for which she was not ready. She wanted me to be with her but without marriage which is for me It was not possible for me to see both sin and disgrace in it.
A year ago, when she blocked me, I gave her a three-month vote, saying that if you were not ready for marriage in three months, I would marry someone else, but she stuck to her habit and I Exactly three months later, asked for another girl's hand and married her. My marriage took place three months later when she returned to me. Seeing that she had completely lost me, I sent her a picture with my wife and told her that time had run out and the blood of trust had flowed and now there was no way back. Today I am happy with my wife and I have a daughter.
My purpose in writing this is to make it clear to all girls and boys that today's love is nothing but a purpose. Save yourself from sin and if it is your love that evades various excuses then it is love. No, leave it immediately because sin is very attractive, but a halal alternative can save you from many sins.
Asad Hashmi