Lu Wen brought a few students to Qian Xiaoming's place.
This side happened to solve the problem of the Japanese student and the American student fighting. When Lu Wen and the others came, the side had completely returned to normal, and then there was Qian Xiaoming's debate.
Debate competitions are usually conducted by several people together, one debate, two debates and three debates, but the competitions in small colleges are only debated by one person, which more reflects the level of students.
On the other side of Qian Xiaoming is a student from a small college in Italy. The topics of the debate are also representative. It can be said that they are also related to their students. These topics are carefully selected by UNESCO.
The topic of Qian Xiaoming's debate is: the generation gap between children and their parents. The main responsibility for the generation gap lies with the parents, and the main responsibility for the generation gap lies with the children.
Regarding this topic of debate, Qian Xiaoming and other students have personally experienced that the generation gap between children and parents exists no matter where it is, and the generation gap between children and parents is an objective thing.
The main responsibility of Qian Xiaoming's debate is that the generation gap lies in the fact that the child is the opposite. The Italian student is called Albert. The direction of his debate is that the main responsibility of the generation gap lies with the parents, which is the positive.
When the topic appears, the two people draw their own debate direction with each other, and then give each ten minutes of thinking time. This is the time to test them, and their breadth of knowledge will be reflected here.
It's time.
The referee said directly: "Now ask the protagonist to clarify your point of view first."
Albert is obviously very confident. After listening to the referee's words, he directly opened his mouth and said: "Our view is that the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with the parents. Parents with more than ten years of life experience are very mature and know There are many things. There is a saying among you Chinese that parents eat more salt than we eat rice. Obviously, parents know more about the world than we do.
However, the times are constantly moving forward, and their accumulated life experience is not applicable in today's fast-developing society. And we are young people in the new era. We are constantly advancing with the times. The pace of our parents cannot keep up with us. We cannot stop our pace and wait for our parents to catch up with us.
Parents not only don't understand us, they sometimes use their outdated views to resist our development; this is how the generation gap between the two generations arises. Therefore, we believe that the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with the parents. "
Albert has a wide range of knowledge, and he also knows Chinese sayings. Qian Xiaoming didn't think of this, but he didn't get frustrated. He had his own self-confidence. For so long, he didn't learn it for nothing, and he Now I still feel that his mind is particularly clear, just like every time it's his turn to take an exam, his mind is particularly clear. This is where his confidence lies. Of course, he doesn't know that this is Lu Wen specially for them. Because of the blessed intermediate learning aura.
Qian Xiaoming said solemnly: "Chairman, teacher of judges, friends present here, hello everyone! First of all, let me point out a few mistakes of the other party:
The generation gap can be clearly defined as the difference between two generations due to values, mental states, and living habits.
Responsibility has two meanings: one is what should be done within one's own right; the other is the negligence that should be undertaken for failing to do well within one's own right. Having mastered these concepts, from the generation, performance, development and nature of the generation gap, we can make it clear that the main responsibility of the generation gap in the family lies with the children.
The generation gap is mainly manifested as: differences, misunderstandings, suspicions, complaints and even confrontations between parents and children. Generally, as the children mature, the generation gap will gradually ease.
One is the drastic changes in the physical and mental state of young people. The upheaval has prompted us to discover ourselves, pursue independence, subvert the concept of childhood, and begin to choose and pursue career, friendship, love and life values. In the current single-child family, the parents' lack of knowledge and experience makes them ill-prepared for the changes in their children and can only respond in the same way as before. Only when adolescents let their parents know about this mutation can they bring about a corresponding change in their concepts and consciousness, and can they eliminate misunderstandings and gaps. "
Qian Xiaoming was talking on the stage, his face was confident and free and easy. At this moment, he didn't have the kind of funny head in front of Lu Wen, and the kind of inattentiveness in front of his classmates. He has now substituted himself. Among the roles that the teacher customized for himself, if at that moment, he imagined slamming Fang Qiu for the benefit of the country.
Lu Wen also looked at Qian Xiaoming on the stage. He was very satisfied. After such a long time of study, coupled with the repeated external practice in the school, he has initially established his own self-confidence.
And the few students on the side seemed to have seen a ghost. They had never seen Qian Xiaoming's appearance. Is this still that Qian Xiaoming who has been indifferent? Is this the Qian Xiaoming who is full of hippie smiles?
Not only them, but even Qian Xiaoming's parents at this moment were all surprised. They almost couldn't recognize their son. They looked at the talking son on the TV screen, and they suddenly felt a little dazed. The son seems to have grown up.
At this moment, the son who had been arguing with them all the time, they felt that they had really grown up. They no longer knew what they were thinking about now, and now their hearts were full of flavors and tastes.
There are not only happy, happy, but also the idea that the boy has grown up and his parents can't control, but the joy in his heart is mostly.
Qian Xiaoming doesn't know the thoughts of his parents below and outside. He just wants to win this game and realize his dream.
Qian Xiaoming's time is up, and the referee shows the red card to indicate that the time is over. Qian Xiaoming just said: "So we believe that the main responsibility of the generation gap lies with the children."
Albert's complexion became a little heavy. In the one-minute debate of Qian Xiaoming just now, he not only refuted the reason for his debate just now, but also clearly stated his own point of view. At this moment, he clearly felt that this was a rival. , Should not be underestimated.
When Albert's expounding time was over, he took a deep breath and said slowly: "I will also ask a few questions about the other side's point of view. First, the young people's point of view is in line with social development. At that time, parents should not blindly deny their children's views. Children's views are not necessarily wrong, and some parents deny their children's views altogether.
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Next, I want to elaborate on my point that parents who use their outdated ideas to guide their children will make children in the rebellious period feel disgusted. Parents regard themselves as elders and think that they are justified no matter what.
Therefore, they did not communicate well with their children, and there was a generation gap between them. Children hope that they can have a pair of parents who understand them, and hope to tell them their troubles.
But at this time, parents either feel that their children are affected by some bad habits, or feel that such troubles are completely insignificant. Such a response time and time again will naturally prevent children from communicating with their parents and deepen the generation gap between children and parents. Therefore, the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with the parent. "
Qian Xiaoming: "Children's impetuousness, anger and self-righteousness. Of course knowledgeable parents won't buy it.?
The way to resolve the generation gap lies on both sides. Parents should work hard to learn cultural knowledge, understand the characteristics of their children in advance, and strive to grasp the characteristics of the times and concepts of the times; keep learning and progress; at the same time adjust their physical and mental state, and strive to treat their children with optimism, cheerfulness and trust;
Children should be considerate, caring about their parents, and adopt appropriate methods to guide their parents to understand themselves and understand the concept of the times; at the same time, they need to have a clear and deep understanding of their youth and superficiality. However, the primary responsibility of parents is to support the family; and the social task of their children is to learn. Therefore, we believe that the main responsibility for the generation gap in the family lies with the children. "
On the debate stage, the two sides were arguing, complementing each other, and everyone in the audience and in front of the TV could feel a dignified atmosphere. Looking at the two people facing each other on the stage, they all secretly admired. Two good guys.
The judges on the stage who watched the debate on both sides are all shining. They have seen the previous few debates, and none of them is as exciting as them, and the time has slowly passed with their debates. Now, it will be time soon.
But no judges stopped them, but continued to watch their debates. They don't want to interrupt the debate now.
At this time, both Qian Xiaoming and Albert felt that their opponents were strong, so they took out all their solutions, expounding their own views, looking for loopholes in the other's views, and thinking about themselves. What is not explained clearly.
This kind of thinking is very mentally exhausting. In addition, they still get the problem temporarily. They didn't have any preparation before, and now they have sweat on their faces. This is not physical fatigue, but the reason for overthinking .
As time went on, they spent more and more time thinking and left more and more sweat. Qian Xiaoming didn't expect that he would meet such a rival in the first game, and he didn't want to be eliminated here.
Thinking that all the previous classmates were promoted, and Zheng Chen and Jiang Yuning were still promoted in the first place. If he falls behind here, then he really has no face to meet people. Thinking of this, he is even more determined. NS.
When Jiang Yuning was promoted to the first place, Xu Miaohan told him that he was also happy for Jiang Yuning when he knew it, but it was more pressure. Although Jiang Yuning was the first to become famous in his class, he thought he was no better than her. Difference.
Albert is also thinking of Qian Xiaoming. He is not comparing with others, but purely does not want to lose the game, so the two now have a bit of a needle-point feeling towards Maimang.
Not only did they feel it, but also the audience and the judges at the scene. They also saw that the two of them were reaching their limit. Several judges discussed with each other, and then waited until Qian Xiaoming had just elaborated his views. Stopped.
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