Back in days , life starts when someone is born and ends when death comes . My name is kevin , i am Rwandan and i was born in 2003 . At 10 years i once asked my mother , " why don't we visit my grandfather and my grandmother ? " , she replied , " if it would be possible to visit your grandparents they would be happy ..." i asked again , " what do you mean mom ? let me ask daddy to give us money so that we can visit them .." most of the times we young people don't understand what is happening but we always need guidance , my mother cried but i didn't realise that there was something wrong and she said , " i believe that you will understand it ." and i never took that into account , when daddy came i asked him the same question and he also changed the look . 5 years later , i was 15 and my mother told me that darkest days ever took my grandparents and i asked ,"darkest days ? what do you mean mama ?" she said crying , " april 1994 Genocide against tutsi in Rwanda ." at that moment everything changed , my heart was broken and i believe that my blood changed colour and i was full of fear . And i tried to ask about other families were are they and silence was the answer ...... And now i understand everything and said , " we are the family and nothing left behind only forward ." ... 27 years on , we are family like she said and we are strong , struggling for development leaving behind all effects .