This could be a undiscovered stuff somewhere or the real knowledge making sense to some remote reader.
So far, we have lived our life since the moment of birth. Yes we did.
Begun with instincts, we started learning the worldly ways by imitating the surrounding and responding to it and started making myriad types of experiences of life throughout and we didn't stop it , we are still at it.
But what is it that has changed over time .
What is real reason it has Changed.
What is essence of our new type of behaviour with so called maturely ways.
Let me say , it is that we have failed to gain deeper understanding of ourselves during all this time.
We are just living through it satisfying felt needs.
When you see your crush getting impressed by some douche's skills you strive to showcase yourself.
When the exam approaches you start cram .
Also we are used to things , we have been doing it the same way we have been doing.
" There is snake in bathroom " " kill it " and not " shoo it"
" Why doesn't apple fly upwards" instead of fall of legends. We never cared.
Well don't complain saying how this affects our change or mind . Because we belong to world , we see world so it's in us ( read next chapter for this).
The introspection and self understanding we might be doing, if at all, is overshadowed by our ego or our complete involvement with superficial worldly whims.
While we have been gaining experience and knowledge of life by living the same repetitive life and doing occasional different stuff , the mind we have has become inflexible. For it is used to same stuff, it becomes immovable hammer of Thor . Or Inflexible in the manner we become unable to accept the new things .
Is it necessary to be flexible?
Do i need to accept new stuff?
i am okay with old ways i am comfortable .
You think i am inflexible ?
should i do eating and pooping differently , you say ?
Well the need to grow , need to learn it might have diminished.
First of all we need to adjust to society . since it's ever changing . ( even if it's only people around you is changing)
By getting accustomed to the our solidified principles which aren't permanent and universal we are becoming narrow minded.
It's difficult to change once we become old.
Old in the sense getting used to the our ways of thinking or working .
We need to have capabilities to see world in different angles.
Experience the changes .
Living the same way , measuring the world in your "this is it" way . You need to be mindful of this . This makes our life stagnant.
I mean to say that , Change is life .
Embrace it.
So i just started writing this because i have observed this phenomenon commonly in all the people i have known .
That is why we need to keep the mind so that it is capable of agreeing or disagreeing when the time comes.