Let me explain my story in brief.
I did my 11th from govt school & 12th from a very normal school .
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on someone's suggestion my father sent me to a coaching.
My basics were not clear ( due to poor school background and lack of conceptual clarity )
So initially i worked hard and got good rank in coaching's tests but after sometime I lost the track due to some reasons. My rank got deteriorated, I was so disappointed that I started skipping tests.
Here comes advice 1 :
You are a teen so maturity can not be expected but be rigid to coaching's plan. Never skip test and never lose the flow.
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Then I had a severe hair fall there, so i just shaved my head so that i dont lose them . Becoz of this I never tried to flirt or attract any girl. Trust me you will get a lot of chances in college
Here comes advice 2:
Avoid teen love. In your case avoid insta, fb and social media . These '50–60 likes' will give you nothing
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After that I kept preparing, I knew I would clear this for sure. I lost coaching's pace but i kept preparing, kept solving questions and kept revising things .
On paper day, I was not able to handle tha paper due to lack of mocks. I handled it so badly that i got only 33 marks in maths( JEE- MAINS). But yes, i performed well in physics and chemistry .
Here comes advice 3 :
Mock tests are very important things. Keep polishing your preparation. Irrespetive of ranking, keep preparing for the D-day . Your performance on final day will matter
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Now starts college journey. It is very important It will give you a great insight.
Being Hindi medium student, first problem i faced - 'ENGLISH COMMUNICATION' .
I managed .
Then you will see people from elite class, you may find yourself inferior but you have to keep going
So i managed.
I joined extra curricular activities like dance. We started a dance team there .If you, by luck reach to NITJ. You will find that team today as well ( it is almost 8 years old now )
So I managed
Relationship and all these things
I managed ( tell in some other answer 😂, it is of no use here )
Academic study
I ruined it very badly.
Trips, friends and a lot of other things ( shouldn't be explained here 😂 )
I did
Placement : i got placed in two companies in the end.
But due to some reasons
I dint join them.
Started preparing for govt exam and cleared one of them.
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Here comes the biggest advice ( or motivation ) :
Any of IIT or NIT college will give you a lot of life experiences which you never imagined.
Thousands of door of opportunities will open for you, the doors which you have never imagined.
You will get opportunities to explore yourself.
You can be anyone from JEETU BHAIYA to SUNDER PICHAI .
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Final thing which i want to tell you is that I couldn't exploit the things properly, I m trying my best to prove myself .
This ambition comes to me only becoz i studied in one of these colleges. had i been that same village boy , i would have never been so ambitous as i see my school classmates here with zero ambitions.
So go and get it champs ! ❤️
Even you dont know what this one year's hard work can make you , how it can change your entire life