"There are people in this world who know whether I'm talking nonsense or not. If you don't believe me, you can go to Luzi village, Chenyuan County, Tongzhou and ask the oldest elders in the village. Back then, your father and I were taken away by bandits and we were locked up in the same place. I was only 13 years old at that time, not yet of marriageable age. The bandit asked your father to humiliate me, or I'll kill him. Then, your father agreed. They let your father humiliate me first, and then humiliate me together. Your father was watching from the side. I told him to kill me. When he pounced on me, I told him to kill me. He didn't. In order to live, he listened to the bandits. In order to survive, he personally lit the incense that the bandits had given him. He said that after his men saved him, he would give me a status and kill all the bandits. No one would know my past and he would let me stay in his house and give me a place to live.