advice it's to aid your decision when needed, it is not to be applied the moment its heard or the moment it comes to mind..
if its an advice, know well now that it's meant to be applied only when need, its an aid to decision making process.
advice usually says Do not get lost in your thoughts, do not get confused in your decisions, treat yourself best the people you love next, because only by treating yourself well can you take care of the people you love, but make sure that while doing that you won't lose yourself in the process because you're first in your life, be the queen of your own kingdom that never needed or had to depend on a king even when you have one be independent but slightly dependent on your partner ( king ) men like girls that can depend on them but don't go being fully dependent on your partner so that when he leaves you will still be standing on your feet.
My advice to you is to be you, never make anyone make you fell unlove show yourself ( character ) to the one you know you want to spend your life with but if he can't love you as you are and wants you to change just know he isn't meant for you cause one can't pretend to be something they fully know they are not all their life but remember if they love you they will always love you for who you are not who they want you to be...
Remember an advice is only an advice and should be put into a decision making process only when needed be careful cause life is too short to be wasted..