"Asia, people are different and have different perspectives on how they take things. maybe he believes he must be intimate with a girl as long as they are in a relationship. Remember that we all can never be the same, we are only half of the same, we think differently and even if two people have alot in common, they can never have everything in common. having alot in common doesn't mean that both of them like the same things or think in the same way towards certain things". Asia concurred to what her friend said, it's true that we are just half of the same and not the same."so what's your conclusion? will you give him what he wants to save your relationship or you will probably break up? we both know that even if he hasn't yet given you an ultimatum, this is exactly where your relationship is, he hasn't even bothered to check up on you for almost five days now so it's obvious you have to make a decision". Fortune was silent for a few seconds and replied "firstly, I blame him for not being honest in beginning, just to get me to accept him, he lied saying he understood me and that he would give me time untill I was ready. the foundation of this was built upon fantasies, he had his own thoughts and I had mine. I on the other hand thought we were moving at the same pace but it was fake. He had been pretending all this while and it feels like I never knew him, every single good thing he did, was not because he wanted to but because he had an expectation. in short he was hoping that after being good towards me in such a short period of time, I would change my mind and give in. I even thought I found the best boyfriend I could ever find but it was never real".