NEW JOURNEY BEGIN
After four months of our marriage, I told hannan am ready to have a baby, I dont want him to use protection again, because he told me on our wedding night that he wants us to enjoyed sex before planning to have a baby, but I dont love the idea, I told him am not a prostitute, am his wife, we married legally, we have the right to have sex anyhow we want it, but he said he is not ready to see baby interfering into our sexual aspect for now, moreso he wants to build his wealth more by investing into real estate, and buying of shares, investing more into cryptocurrency, before he could invite baby to come. now I was destabilize, I said to him " but hannan you know am 39 years now, and I believe the reward of our marriage is to have kids, after all we are fine, we live in our six bedroom duplex, I have my job, you also run a big firm, we are financially okay!!! pls let's start making babies, am ready, with all your wishes and goals it will take us many years to fulfil that, and am getting older, pls!!"
I called abypat and explain the situation to her, she told me it is too early for us to have mis-understanding in our marriage, she told me to get a therapist for both of us, perhaps we could sort things out then.
I talk to seth to get me a therapist, who can talk to hannan and I, seth ask me why do I need a therapist at early month of our marriage, I cant stop but to share with seth, she told me to sit hannan down and ask him perhaps he can not fathered a child, I said " no! no!! no!!! my husband is fine and capable, he is just been adamant with his own opinion on when to start raising a child". seth gave me an address of mrs Julia a therapist.
I called mrs julia, and told her I want to be her client, she gave me an appointment to come and see her in her office on Tuesday, I was so glad about that. when hannan came back I told him about mrs Julia, he got angry and said " it's too early to invite a therapist into our marriage, cant we agreed together as a couple? I am planning for the family, and I am planning for the future too, dassy please let's agree together, all I want from you is just give me a time to plan ahead, I dont want my children to lack, please dassy" and I told him " you are seeing life in a wrong perspective, that is the more reason we need a therapy, please hannan let's go and see mrs Julia" hannan said " okay I will follow you, just to let peace reign, but my decision is still unshakable, please Dassy, try and agree with my decision too as your husband" hannan kissed my forehead and walk to the bedroom to take a nap.
On Tuesday morning, I woke up very early, I woke hannan up while we pray together, i bath, and prepare our breakfast, he also bath and dress-up, i set the dining he later join me and we have our break fast together, after eating, we jist about the new contract he just won, then we took-off.
when we got to mrs Julia's office, her secretary told us to wait, while she call her on telephone, and she told her our names then she cut the phone and told us to go inside, I lead the way the door, when I knock the door, we heard "please come in Mr &Mrs Harvey, then I open the door and hannan followed me, Mrs Julia was so happy to meet us, she greeted us cheerfully, and embraces us with a hug, then we sat infront of her desk, she also sat, and she said " pls Mr &Mrs Harvey our chat will be in 3 section, I would first have chat with Mr hannan Harvey alone, then Mrs Dassy Harvey alone, after then the three of us we would have it together. we said it's perfect. then she told me to excuse them by stepping to the waiting room, while she talk to hannan. their conversations goes like these:
Mrs Julia: pls Mr hannan can you tell everything about yourself and your relationship.
Hannan: my name is Hannan Harvey, am a business man, am married to dassy, we love each other she is the perfect and best woman have ever seen she ...
Mrs Julia: sorry for cutting in, the way you are praising her that means you shouldn't have any issue with her in your marriage, your marriage should be perfect as the way she is perfect, so what goes wrong? why do you need therapy at your early stage, pls can you share with me pls?
Hannan: okay i think I should tell you everything, it's just eight month after our wedding, dassy as been on my neck of making a baby, of which I disagreed with her, i told her to allow us enjoy more sex and moreover, I want to build my home and business empire before thinking of inviting babies over, right now I want my wife and I alone.
Mrs julia: is there any other issue apart from time of parenting
hannan: no issue, she is just the perfect woman have been praying to get
Mrs Julia: thank you so much Mr Hannan, your diary session is over, I would have to invite Dassy, while you step to the waiting room.
Hannan open the door and told me to come inside, I stood and come inside while he sat at the waiting room.
my diary session with Mrs Julia:
Mrs Julia: hi Dassy, how are you
Dassy: am fine
Mrs Julia: Dassy, please can you tell me about your self?
Dassy: I'm Dassy, married, to the blessed man, we are living happily we.....
Mrs Julia: sorry to cut-in, I know your name, i know your husband is a blessed man, why do you visit a therapist at eight month of your marriage?
Dassy: okay to call a spade a spade, am married but depressed, though it's too early to see a therapist, but am having issue in my marriage right now
Mrs Julia: can you enlighten me on that issue please?
Dassy: after we got married, I expect us to have start planning on making baby, we are fine and okay, I have my job which they pay me well, he has a big oil company,we have many properties, in a nutshell, we are financially okay, but my husband said until he acquired more wealth and build many empire all over the world, then we can start making babies, I am 38years now, when would I have my own baby, when?
Mrs Julia: okay Dassy your diary session is over, pls invite Mr Hannan in and let's chat, thank you
I call hannan in and we sit infront of Mrs Julia. Mrs Julia said " now the issues you guys are facing in your marriage is when to start having babies? for how long do you guys court, haven't you discuss about parenting while you are dating then? I answered, yes we talk about it, numbers of children, their gentals, but we never talk about when to start having the babies, we also court for 7months. Mrs Julia ask hannan if he as anything to say concerning my answer, hannan said ' it's true, we never discuss about when to start raising kids. Mrs Julia said " the issue is very simple, you are ready, while he is not ready. Mr Hannan, let me explain something to you, the word "blessing" tag with many things, such as marriage, fruits of the womb, doors of blessing, alot of couple out there with little income, but after marriage, God opens the door of favour to them.The lord as bless you already, why are you taken his grace for granted? marriage on it's own comes with blessing, so while dont you utilize the resources God as inbuilt in you to bring forth that wonderful kids, and see how God will continue to enreach you more.
Mrs Dassy, what men dont like is objecting their decision, even when his wrong, there is a way to convince him, without enforcing him, let him know the benefit of your decision.
we left Mrs Julia's office and head back home, when we got home I kneel infront of him and said "am sorry" hannan said he is sorry too, we hug each other and he lifted me up, he whispered to my ear "am ready to have the baby, shall will start now? I cant believe what am hearing, we start kissing till he carried me like a little baby and head to the bedroom, he placed me on the bed and off his shirt while I was trying to unzip my cloth he whispered to me " let me do everything, I want you to enjoy every steps of our love making today, because today is a special day for us" he unzip my gown and we start kissing passionately, he looses my bra, and rub his soft hand on my breast, he later off my pant and put his month on my nipple, I feel so wet by that time, then he whispered to my ear " I can see you are wet, I would love to go-in now" I said " yes baby go-in, am on already" then he dug his penis in little by little, I groan and groan more, I enjoyed it, after 45minute he finally ejaculate and he lied beside me and ask " did you enjoyed that, or you want more" I said " I enjoyed it, I want more later in the day" he stood up to take a shower, while I wanted to followed him, but he said I shouldn't stand up immediately once I finished having sex, I said why, he said " you need to rest for like 20 minutes to let the sperm swim to the egg, there is risk in standing up immediately" I lay back on the bed, and jokingly said " Mr Hannan the Doctor, but who taught you that?" he said "that is my perspective on sexuality. After about 30minutes I go to the toilet to freshen up. my mood through out that day was sweet, like-wise hannan mood too.
We continue with these system for like a month, i notice since we have been having the unprotected sex, we stop fighting each other on any issues, we relate mutually, jist, and we stop nagging, we dont even quarrel again, my home is as sweet as honey, we go to the seminar together, just like when we were courting back then, now am happy