Let me clear about this thought, when you all say to them :
"You're weak"
You are wrong, He did his best to do it, but he could not stand up to it.
"You shouldn't be that way"
You guys are wrong, he had considered many things before he did that. He was not someone to act recklessly.
"You better just give in"
You guys are wrong, he has tried to quit, but he feels that his struggles all this time should be enough to get it. Then why should he give up? Is he that pathetic?
"You can just go first"
You are wrong, if you say wait, I will go with you. At least he will feel that he is needed by you.
"I'm busy"
You are wrong, because at that time he really needed you to tell him everything he had kept to himself for a long time. But you don't seem to have the slightest time for him.
"Can I see you later?"
You guys are wrong, it makes it seem like he's nobody's priority. It made him spend the day alone in the room locking the door tightly, then what would he do but think about its ugliness all this time.
"Why are you complaining about this?"
You guys are wrong, he has tried not to complain, but the reality is really depressing him. In fact he was trying to look just fine. However, you can easily say that.
"Can't you try more?"
You guys are wrong, he has tried many times without you knowing. You don't know he fought harder than before. But you never appreciate him, even think he is not worthy.
"Everything will be okay"
You are wrong, what if there is no good day for him. What if he asks "When did it come? Every problem there seems to be a race to press me on". You guys shouldn't promise him anything uncertain.
"Can't you stop? I'm bored about that topic."
You guys are wrong, he has repeatedly talked about it because he wanted you to respond to it. he has no other topic to talk about, even though he doesn't want alone.
"You're getting arrogant"
you are wrong, he was never arrogant. He just doesn't feel worthy to be friends with you. He felt too inferior. However, you actually think negatively about it.
"Could you not have to act strange? "
You are very wrong, you should be with him. Perhaps, he wants to do a lot better hoping you will realize that he has wanted to go away forever. Hoping that one person only realizes and says I will be with you. But you don't.
At least one person.