"Want some advice from a friend who has been through a similar situation?" Dean asked as his mind started to reminisce about his longing for April in his past life.
"From you… always. I'm lost and a bit useless at this. I sabotage every relationship that I am in. But Aarna is special." Zane said.
Dean sighed and said "Let me explain it this way… Everything that you want in life is going to come packaged in a box that looks like a bomb and it's going to seem scary and threatening. Partially because it threatens your idea of yourself and how you currently live. A lot of the time the things that we want most mean that a small or large part of your old self has to die before you receive it."