SECOND DAY:
Once you have defined, what to do? Whether being dependent or independent. You have tempered the character and defined the personality. Bierny said.
—And can you undertake, making decisions how? Xuli said.
(1) Fall in love.
(2) Ask for the Hand.
(3) Dating.
(4) Marriage.
"Or prolong social freedom a little," Bierny cut the subject, "and complete the family cycle started by your parents." In the end expanding in the middle of everything: where to go? With whom to share?
"Don't remind me that my stay in Peru: it didn't mean where I want to be," Xuli claimed, a little touched, sensitive.
—But if you found it: with whom to share? Bierny replied: "And looking at it from that point of view, you had an agenda to fulfill" at work ", but that did not define you as" being a professional spy "; Well, in the end you made the decision to escape from reality: "you fell in love."
—And the truth that frames the Semaphore Table is shown: How is it that the formula is already a familiar algorithm? If it had not been for natural circumstances; I speak of the providential bite of a mosquito: You would have abused what your wife wants to do today; and you would have had a child; and badly being both: part of the dysfunctional household statistics.
"It's true," flushed, Xuli asked, "adding: I still feel ashamed, every time Alondra gets upset: his gaze seems to reproach me for those moments he had to pass: embarrassment, flight and desolation." We have a lot to thank you for allowing him to come with you to Eastern Europe.
—Alondra: How would he have lived? no money, no access to work or the room where he shared with Nalexa.
"I don't want to, nor can we imagine." What would he have had to live for? "A case like yours, Bierny," said Xuli.
"Sure, one is a man, but she is a woman." Things do not turn out less bad or less worse. They are bad situations and worse circumstances. Bierny said.
—The Semaphore Table: Does it work !? Yes. In your case, you could: Xuli. Mark and fill in the spaces and save the Record. Maybe one day someone with a similar need will come across you and can be of great help, and of course be helped at the same time, "I explain:" When you talk to a young man, it is as if it refreshes life. He spoke with satisfaction. Bierny.
"Now I understand, Bierny." —Said Xuli—, although you are not, according to the Semaphore Table, the product of a total result; even so, you managed to make yourself understand and tell me: What do I want to be? Or rather, we clarify: Who was it?
—I can act in the way I think it is: lying, stealing, cheating, drugging myself, accusing, raping or killing… that shows the character that I have formed in my daily life. Remarked by the absence or almost no participation of my parents. Xuli confessed, and argued: "I believed that, fulfilling the labor requirements, I was productive and that I could go beyond the limits of my duty against the rights of others."
The second day: apparently, it has nothing to offer, I reiterate at first glance. However, when we meditate confronting our work:
If the lights are flashing color: "yellow: between on and off" is the traffic light signal to be careful, because it is up to someone else to move forward. If you cross without heeding the warning, you can cause harm to another and at the same time injure yourself.
If the lights are colored: "green: between hope or premeditation" is the signal of the traffic light to advance; without fear of the next step, tomorrow, what they will say. As your world moves, others stop to admire your walk, applaud your progress or reward your achievement.
If the lights are colored: "red: between stopping or stopping" is the traffic light signal to stop: Choose to rest, breathe in fresh air, go for a walk, hear a song, dance to another rhythm, stop drinking, no overeating, talking no more and shutting up contradictory thoughts ...
"It would be said, Xuli," said Bierny, "that there is a 'personal goal' from the second day of everything created, which has to be confronted: with a climate, with an environment and with an environment.
—This goal or expansion of your common, routine or daily activities; it will create something significant, important and achievable. You must prioritize and discriminate: do something from now on and stop doing something. Within a certain time and space. And it will depend —Bierny, continued expanding the subject:
- Of the climate if it is favorable or unfavorable; when it starts to rain, it will take time to stop the rain and it will take up a space, limiting activities ...
"In that time and space: 'my main goal will be to take Alondra for a walk'," said Xuli, with the aim of moderating the conversation with a bit of grace.
"You bastard ..." he said: Bierny: "You don't stop being funny, but it is worth thinking in" romance "mode, because loving covers all lack. —And as in a chorus of great 'bohemian' friends, they sang phrases like these:
"Who loves you, Oh forgives you!"
-Who loves you? He makes you feel!
-Who loves you!? He values you!
"Who loves you, makes you happy ...!"
There will be no
All what, a man changes, for love. That he is not afraid to lose: character, authority, strength; for giving in to caresses; to early or late affects; to the kisses of a woman.
How many shells have you covered? It is said that the turtle lives its good years, and that its shell does not lose its hardness and rigidity.
On the second day, considering the climate for expansion and separation, this externally; We have to visualize the environment, which is a mixture of what you bring and what others wear.
It is not what wets us like the rain: early or late, but like the winds that come and go from the four corners of the earth. In environment load the environment: have you been under the storm? You have seen the lightning flash, the lightning strike a few kilometers away and hear the brave, intense and extensive sound of thunder ...
As you are, as you show yourself. So will others.
The environment is the social, work, family environment to which you have integrated. And please consider that order of integration, you are going to belong to a society, where you will carry out a work activity based on your previous preparation and whose influence comes from your home. Recapping: you are part of the environment; and you will either receive the river coming to you or you will send the river from your home. That flow will be life and greenery towards you or from you for everyone.