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Chapter 14 - Chapter 14 :- Finally get married

They both go towards there parents and then they both sit in front of holy book the guru grant sahib folding there legs and joining there own hands in a praising way.

Then the main punjabi wedding ceremony started Anand Karaj. It translates to 'blissful union'.The families go into the Gurudwara to attend the Kirtan which is a set of religious songs that are sung. A guru granth sahib, the holy book of the Sikhs is brought out and the priest at the Gurudwara then recites ardas (a set of prayers) .

Then laavan peras started. Laavan are the four prayers that seal the marriage.

Roshni pallu and the Nishant shawl/dupatta are tied together as a symbol of unity. They then take rounds around their holy book, the guru granth sahib as the laavan is chanted. Nishant leads the rounds holding a Kirpan (sword).

They exchange garlands and are then considered married.

After that Karah Prasad ritual get started.

A ceremonial sweet is offered to the guests. The sweet is made by the Roshni family in a certain method and is blessed and considered holy

After sometime the doli ritual get started.

This is when the Roshni bids an emotional farewell to her family and proceeds to her husband's house. As she is departing, she throws a handful of rice backwards towards her mother, symbolically thanking her family for bringing her up and trying to repay them.

It is called doli as in earlier times, the bride was carried to the groom's house in a wooden structure called doli.

Roshni was crying continuously while doing this ritual as she is bidding farewell with our family . After throwing a handful of rice she saw her father in front of her so she fastly hugged her crying continuously.

" Don't cry your makeup will vanish and then you will look like a ghost and Nishant will get afraid from you " her dad said hugging her back.

All started laughing after hearing her dad except Roshni. She was still crying hugging her dad tightly.

" I don't want to leave you both " she said still hugging and crying

" You are not leaving us . It's just that you will have two families now and from now onwards you will live with them " her dad said hugging her tightly and rubbing her back softly