I don't think people should be judged by their mistakes, I think mistakes should be learning moments, a chance to grow and learn. But there is a thin line between a mistake and borderline disrespect, and that line is easier to cross than one may think. Mistakes are easier to come back from that disrespect, the real question is, should people be judged because of their disrespect even when it's not done willingly?
Not showing up to my birthday party was one thing, but forgetting my birthday altogether is downright disrespectful. DeAndre not only didn't remember, but he didn't care, at all.
As someone who spent so much time convincing me that he cares about me, I'd expect for him to at least send a happy birthday message, which he didn't even bother to do.
Some apologies shouldn't be accepted, there is no coming back from some mistakes, especially because this mistake was made on purpose. You'd have to not care about someone at all to forget about their birthday, to forget the anniversary of their birth, does DeAndre even really care about me or is he just using me?
I always say rainy days are my favorite because they give me the chance to stay in bed and cry without seeming lazy, but today, I don't care about seeming lazy, I'm tired, and I deserve rest, even if it's at the expense of my social life.
I haven't answered any phone calls, especially not from DeAndre, he found out he forgot my birthday and went into apology overload. I'm not exactly complaining, but it's a little annoying. I reminded him so many times, for him to forget shows just how insignificant I am in his life, which I don't care about anymore. He did what he did, I felt how I felt, it is what it is.