Everything was going great in my life, kids happy, steady job, etc. I had been through so much with men to the point where I vowed to never date another man until I felt he was the one. In the mean time I started dating a woman things started off perfect. The relationship continued but there was one thing missing. The fact that my family never knew about my relationship with the same sex since I was known as the one in the family with the most kids. So after thinking and trying to find a way to make sure the one person in my life accepted me for me opened up to the fact that she knew made all my worries fade away. My mom of all people made it known which was the happiest moment in my life besides the birth of my kids. At this point I could careless who knew about my relationship or who accepted me for me. It was to Be or Not to Be, either you accept me or let it be.