23 days later...
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Behoeden's father lets him go outside on his own with pepper spray to fend off older women who wish to make him have sex with him; this embarrasses him, so he throws it to some girl on the street, he simply thought "People would see me as a laughing stock to have to have pepper spray to protect myself from women."
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This was a necessity; this was difficult as women felt they could force you out of your virginity from 1+ years of age.
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Where he lives, this cult doesn't take female-on-male rape seriously, no matter the age; since he was super young, his father knew he may not be able to fend off older women.
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Behoeden didn't think that he needed this & he had never been raped before, but if he ever was, people would laugh it off even if he was showing significant signs of distress.
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Behoeden's father was determined to keep him from meeting his fate; this included:
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Forcing Behoeden to wear heavy, unsettling make-up, wearing make-up is a sign that he is gay to women; this can make them try to rape him, but if the make-up is too heavy or off-putting, most people in the cult see that as off-putting.
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Forcing Behoeden to cover himself up.
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Even if he does, women have ripped the clothes off of grown men & underaged men in this cult.
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Wearing a "Cup" to block women from getting to "IT" if they manage to force your clothes off.
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Cutting his own face.
Behoeden wasn't made to do this; this was an optional precautionary measure to make himself be seen as off-putting to pedophile women.
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His friend, Thomas, would often cut his face to make himself not be seen as attractive to women.
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The younger you are, the more likely all the measures listed above, except for cutting the boy, would be imposed by male-rape victims.
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This is because the younger you are, the less likely you are to be able to fight back.
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Behoeden walks around the city with no protection, safeguard, or even a backup plan from police to defend him from a sexual assault.
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Behoeden finds Sindy at the park, Sindy yells "Hey, Boo!"
Behoeden flirts with Sindy for a while before an adult woman comes to flirt with him.
Sindy yells at her, "Leave him alone; he's my boyfriend!"
The woman says, "Oh, I didn't know that." Mocking Sindy.
Behoeden yells, "I don't want you; go away! I love my girlfriend!" Pointing to Sindy, who proudly smiles.
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Without his son's knowledge, "Ik Wist Het," Behoeden's father, pushed the adult woman named Usia down.
"Ik Wist Het" yells, "Get away from my son, you pervert!" As he kicked her away as the woman got up to run off.
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"Ik Wist Het" decided to tell his son a story & sat next to him as the woman ran off.
"Ik Wist Het," says, "I had a nephew. My older brother had a son named Tony."
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Flashback
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"Ik Wist Het" narrates...
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Tony had married Debby.
Tony was only 7, and Debby was... 18.
His father, my older brother, Windell, wasn't entirely against it as his wife, who was like a mother to him in... Unsettling ways...
She wasn't against it because she married my brother when he was 6 years old & she was 32.
When my older brother turned 12, that's when she...
Unfortunately, forced him out of his virginity as many of the women here do.
I always felt that we needed to improve our society...
So that this wasn't... Seen as a joke, he was mocked & congratulated at 12 for being raped.
His wife got him drunk, like Lot's daughters in the Bible got Lot drunk, & Windell's wife raped him so that he could hardly stand & he even rejected his wife while drunk.
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Windell woke up the following day in tears, he had no idea what had happened, but he was confused & scarred for life. His wife was 38 when he was only 12.
4 weeks later, his wife was pregnant from the encounter.
He named his son "Tony."
When Windell was 19 & Tony was 7, Windell's wife was 45.
Debby had come to their house & conversed with Windell before the proposal.
Being practically raised by his wife, Windell asked her if it was okay for him to allow Tony to marry Debby.
His wife was ecstatic & asked Debby to provide for her 7-year-old son as he was too young to provide for the marriage, so she had to be "The man of the House."
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At the wedding of 18-year-old Debby & 7-year-old Tony, Tony said all the vows of the cult's religion & married Debby, in a way...
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Tony was brought to Debby's house when he was super young; he couldn't buy a house like most underage married boys, who would stay in their wives' homes until, at the age of 14 or so, they were able to afford a new home for their brides.
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Tony was far too young, so Tony didn't have to buy his own house.
Tony was a baby; he didn't know anything about marriage.
Tony chose to treat Debby as if she was his mom since she never touched him at that time like Windell's wife, Debra, Tony's mother, would.
Tony had no idea that this wouldn't last.
First, it started as emotional incest, incest where there is no physical incest.
This went on for 5 months; she was grooming my nephew...
That angers me to this day.
After the 5 monthly periods of grooming traditionally imposed on boys his age, she began touching him in ways that made him uncomfortable.
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Tony was always different after that; one day, an outsider girl, Tonya, brought him some beer.
She was 13 & he was 14.
Tony ended up having sex with the girl, and we were shocked he was sober & she was, too.
Girls rape men in this cult.
He got her pregnant, and Tonya gave him the baby to care for; his wife was livid.
His wife got a whip, a rope & handcuffs.
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Tonya's parents stayed in the cult for her baby to be closer to the father; the baby was a boy.
Tonya was babysitting her son, so Tony was alone with his wife that day...
Debra beat Tony, a teenage boy & cuffed him to the bed.
Debra tied his feet together.
Debra became more abusive & yelled at him; she beat him tirelessly.
Debra looked down at him & decided to get revenge on him by raping him again.
He struggled as she ripped his clothes off.
Tony told me this on the day he was going to kill himself.
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Tony was sobbing uncontrollably; he had been getting high since an outsider named John, a 17-year-old, gave him weed 13 days prior.
He used it because John told him it would get the rape that happened 17 days prior off his mind.
Tony told me he was planning to slit his throat to end his life.
I prevented this by removing all the sharp objects,
Tony & I were just teenagers; I was 13.
Tony kept asking me where the pills to kill himself were as his wife's abuse got harder & harder.
Every day, she'd rape him, beat him & mentally abuse him.
Even if he cheated on her, this was wrong.
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He was 14 & Debby was 25.
Tony told tonya what was happening, so she told her parents, who called the police.
They arrested Debby for beating him all the time & abusing him, but they laughed off the rape charges.
They didn't believe a boy could be raped, but he had the bruises to prove she was beating him.
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Tonya's parents let him live with her, but he had outbursts, was on drugs, an alcoholic, & the cult was absurd with how much pedophilia went on; they chose to move him to Houston, Texas, where his concerns were taken seriously, he was also put in Rehab, AA & therapy.
They didn't want him to live with them, so they put him in a rehab center rather than a psych-ward, but the father wanted him in a psych-ward since he figured it was the only thing that could help him & admitted him 7 months later after he was put in rehab.
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Present Day...
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"Ik Wist Het" no longer narrates...
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"Ik Wist Het," says, "It wasn't uncommon for boys to turn to alcohol as a coping mechanism after rape."
"Ik Wist Het," says "I... When you slept, my boy, I would be blacked-out drunk. I made sure to hide it from your mother. It was just for the best; I feared her and wasn't sure what relationship we had. I was like her son & wife."
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To be continued...