We need to become closer to God, this is a sign of the world's sexual perversion, not all men have this kind of issue but men in the Amish, most of them, have been taught to abstain from sex and have done it until marriage.
Then they also get shamed for having sex out of wedlock if they do.
God also keeps them on track.
Other than that, people in other societies have loose reigns on men.
While some societies choose to train out the bugs that come with some people, when it comes to men, America sheds a blind eye to sin.
The bible bans men from having sex outside of marriage but America chose to shut their eyes, even blaming the women for horrific deeds such as rape, claiming "The men were men, they did what men do, you shouldn't have dressed like that!" Meaning they all got away with sins like this.
Women do horrible things like this too, in fact, we let them due to the fact that we refuse to believe a woman would do it to a man or another woman. Our views on male sexuality make us think it's okay for women to sexually assault men, out views on women make us think a woman wouldn't even try.
The Bible says fornication is a sin but we only allow women to be punished for it in a lot of America, men get called Players and are complimented for their sin.
The men spread their seed, become father to 60 children by 60 women they hardly know and never see the women or children again and may never know they exist because it was all a one night stand, he never knew her address, name, or phone number.
60% of America is fatherless. Only 40% still have a father in their lives.
These men blame the women, even though they charm and coerce women into sex, they put all blame on her and accept none for themselves, and while the women should say no and hold off until marriage, we cannot withhold blame from men and put all focus on women alone.
I mean, think about it:
We created their sin nature.
They were told their entire childhood of how cool a player is, they watched the sinful sex movie where fornication is popular.
When they do fornication, we congratulate them in their sin.
They get more validation, they get taught to dump the women the got pregnant in high school, they are trained to see the women as whores for having sex with men, including themselves, but they are never taught to look in the mirror at themselves and see their own sins.
The fact that men were even allowed to rape is a sign that people have gone insane in the past, they thought it was totally okay to cause such pain to women.
They were so perverted that their idea of Men being unable to control themselves was used as an excuse, but when an insane murderer goes around murdering people, suddenly we must stop him, even if he is unable to control himself.
We never look at him and say "Oh, but he can't help himself! It's the dead person's fault for being there in the first place!"
The Bible says that rape is as if a man murdered his neighbor. The sin is in the man that raped her, not the woman who was raped.
Our view of male sexuality became so perverted that when a man was raped, some never show comfort, but laugh at it and say he should have liked it because they would have or something sickening.
Some even laughed at the men and called them curse words over the men reporting the rape, even if the rapist was in her 40s and the male was 14.
One male rape victim was raped at 5 by his mother, and he told his story of it, another man told him he was lucky to have had sex at such a young age from a hot chick. The "Hot Chick" was the rape victim's mother. How have you gone so perverse you think sex with your mother is okay?
Making fun of male rape victims is not okay at all.
Making fun of women raped by women is not okay, either.
Making fun of men raped by women & men is not okay.
Making fun of and blaming any gender for rape by any gender is not okay.